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March 24th 2025

Author Interview: Ngoc Minh Ngo

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Seeing with Tenderness offers a glimpse into the world of Ngoc Minh Ngo, a renowned garden photographer and writer whose work celebrates the beauty of flowers, gardens, and the natural world. She has authored six books and countless articles for leading publications, including T Magazine, Vogue, Architectural Digest, and Martha Stewart Living.  

Ngoc grew up in South Vietnam during the Vietnam War, in which her father served as a colonel in the South Vietnamese Army. 

As the war drew to a close, her family was forced to flee. Their trusted housekeeper made the gut-wrenching decision to burn all their family photographs and documents to ensure their safety—what Ngoc describes as “the greatest sense of loss that I have ever experienced.” 

This loss fundamentally altered her relationship with photography and memory, and she says that her approach to photography centers around finding “tenderness” in opposition to violence in the world. 

In California, where the family rebuilt their life, Ngoc’s father became an avid gardener, finding particular joy in growing roses. He passed away in April 2008, just before his flowers could bloom one last time. This personal loss deepened Ngoc’s connection to roses, eventually inspiring her latest book, Roses in the Garden, featuring rose collections from around the world and dedicated to his memory.

We were honored when Ngoc visited Floret for a few days last year to photograph a segment for the book. She captured our heritage rose collection—from the blush-tinged ‘Félicité et Perpétue’ climbing our metal archways to the citrus-scented Rosa × dupontii spilling out of the hedgerows.

Between the good light of the early morning and late afternoon, she shared her remarkable story as well as her approach to photography with us. We are so grateful.

 

To celebrate the release of Ngoc’s upcoming book, Roses in the Garden, we’re giving away five copies. For a chance to win, post a comment below telling us which part of Ngoc’s interview impacted you the most. Winners will be announced on April 1. Please note: This giveaway is open to U.S. residents only.

Congratulations to our winners: Laurie Hoelzeman, Aubry Parker, Kim Gunter, Stacie Seuberling and Cynthia Carpenter

To learn more and connect with Ngoc, be sure to visit her website and follow her on Instagram. Roses in the Garden will be released on April 29, 2025, and is available for pre-order now from Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Bookshop.org, and your favorite local bookstore. 

Other titles by Ngoc include:

Eden Revisited: A Garden in Northern Morocco 

In Bloom: Creating and Living with Flowers

Bringing Nature Home: Floral Arrangements Inspired by Nature

New York Green: Discovering the City’s Most Treasured Parks and Gardens

The House of a Lifetime: A Collector’s Journey in Tangier 


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427 Comments

  1. Cindi Randolph on

    Her words captured my immigrant family’s quest to regain a new reality. They, like her, lost everything to WW11 via “relocation camps”” to atomic bombs decimating family homes in Japan. Ngoc’s determination to capture beauty first her soul is searing. What I have from my family is grown in my garden and my most precious possessions.-thank you Ngoc for a lovely missive.

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  2. Nora Masters on

    Emotions brought forward for me with my father and roses by Ngoc… thank you.

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  3. Lisa on

    Gorgeous! Magic in the flowers. Finding tenderness in the world. Beautiful messages

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  4. Lynn Gonzalez on

    Ngoc is such a beautiful, calming person. Her story of having to leave her family home quickly saddened me. The loss of all of her dad’s pictures was so awful. She is such a strong person to share that with the world.

    I can only imagine the joy that came from Ngoc and Erin spending a few days together. What an experience for both of them. Two powerfully influential women, spending quality time together in the middle of gardens full of heirloom roses. What a joy!

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  5. Paige Young on

    This interview really resonates with me. From being an artist, a horticulturist and a farmer, I felt so much of her words deep in my soul. Like Ngoc, the garden, flowers and the magic of nature beings me closer to my parents, as we tend to their farm . I too think that my parents would have great pleasure in seeing the love and nurturing we have put into their farm. Thank you for the video, it touched my heart and is very inspiring.

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  6. Marcey Keefer Hutchison on

    What a bittersweet story. I was particularly moved when Ngoc shared how her family photos were destroyed. What a void that must have left, breaks my heart. But coming full circle and experiencing healing through photography and roses is such a beautiful thing.

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  7. Betty Fermoyle on

    I was touched by the connection to her father through the roses. I understand as my father was a gardener and I learned to love the process of the flowers and vegetables he grew . Gardening feeds the soul . She also said her photos show the beauty of the world and that is so true.

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  8. Debra Eveland on

    Such a beautiful story and book! As I am in my seventies, I am saddened knowing I can no longer put in the hard work of being an avid flower gardener! But I will work till my very last breath, to keep beauty, in all forms, alive in our crazy world! Nothing makes me happier than seeing a budding or blossoming plant, and as I look at the rose photographs, I imagine them in my garden and always looking beautiful!

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  9. Fran Moore on

    Flowers are beautiful but when one learns to heal with working with flowers it becomes life changing. Love your story, thank you for sharing. All the best for you.

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  10. Roxie Kuramoto on

    My heart has been touched deeply watching this beautiful interview. Her comforting voice, compassion, love of roses, family, life, and her hobby of photography blended with nature’s gift is ever present and abundant. I found myself relating to her story. My Dad was in the US Navy during WWII. I lost him as a teenager, but was blessed with so many loving memories; his love of photography. He had slides of our trips on the Puget Sound while on our boat, nature and I remember him planting flowers in the spring. He was a gentle soul. As I grew up, living through the grief, I somehow, without realizing it, found a love for photography too. My family has commented on my pictures, mainly of roses when I had my home and more now on my neighborhood walks. They said I’m taking after Dad. Unfortunately, I don’t have any of my father’s slides or prints, but I have him with me.
    This book looks stunning. I’m grateful to a dear friend who forwarded the link to watch the interview. Such a blessing!

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  11. heidi on

    we live the glory + endure the heartbreak of losing life’s collections before we ourselves are erased comes to mind. we grieve loss, but we also inhale life’s bounty in each rose petal. i continue to be gifted with reblooms on the gnarly rose bush my father gave my mother on mother’s day when i was 6 ~ i’m now 80🩷

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  12. Serena Lim on

    I’m very moved by the beauty, vulnerability, and wisdom that Ngoc shares with us in this interview. The feeling that photographing roses is a way to keep her father with her a little longer really resonates with me. My father was an artist and architect, and I lost him when I was 18; I eventually decided to become an architect in part because I feels like it connects me to him. Both my parents immigrated from farming villages in other parts of the world when they were very little, and as I’ve grown older I’ve found that gardening (and sometimes especially just the grunt-yard work!) feels like it connects me to my parents and their farming roots. Ngoc also shared two pieces of wisdom that really stood out to me: 1) when you learn about something, you see it differently and appreciate it more— this is so important at a time when people are divided and don’t seem to have real opportunities to approach each other with tenderness and curiosity—and 2) beauty is medicine—it’s so easy to feel like art and beauty are frivolous when there’s so much discord and hardship in the world, but beauty (especially in nature) can heal, uplift, connect us, and ground us. I have dreams of someday cultivating lots of beauty through farming flowers, and finding ways to share it with people who have fallen on hard times and need healing.

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  13. Polly Vollmar-Heywood on

    For me, the most beautiful scenes of this interview came at the end, as the memory of her father’s love of roses reached a crescendo in her heart. The shot of the white rose with dappled backlit sunlight shining through it is the crest of the film. Thank you so much! Beauty IS medicine.

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  14. Kari Ward on

    What an inspiring story through the story of roses. The symbolism of the beauty, the resilience, and strength of roses parallels the beauty of family bonds, the resilience of Ngoc’s family leaving their home, and the strength to move forward. I love the way that Ngoc has shared her love for her father through roses. I could feel the soft petals and smell the sweet scent from her lovely video. This interview moved me. Thank you for sharing.

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  15. Kari on

    Ngoc, your heartwarming story struck a chord with me. While you were growing up in South Vietnam, I was growing up in California. Just before the Fall of Saigon, my father -a Flying Tiger Pilot- flew missions into Saigon, filling empty 747’s, standing room only, with as many people as possible taking them to safety. I know that “sense of loss” you speak of and the profound emptiness of wondering if my father would return. He too is gone now and like you I find solace in my garden, choosing to focus on and share the exquisiteness of God’s creation.

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  16. Suzanne Cerron on

    Ngoc’s quiet insightfulness and passionate love for her craft and her family is deeply moving. Flowers are magical and her ability to capture that magic, and their moments of beauty is breathtaking. I am moved by the quote “Beauty is the medicine for the world”. The beauty of flowers gives my heart a sense of peace. In my gardens, among the flowers, there is life amidst a quiet stillness with only the sounds of Nature, there is hope. I have faith in that beauty, for its return every year and for the healing I know will bestow on me if I take the time to breathe it in. Sharing my flowers is giving of my love to the others. Ngoc’s art is truly a gift to the world, beautiful, thoughtful, healing.

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  17. Diane Piemonte on

    What a moving interview…I have always loved her work and look forward to seeing this new book through the lens of this intimate interview. I know well the pain and grief of losing a father as I lost my own when I was only 14. It was definitely one of the defining moments in my life and has greatly impacted and influenced who I am and how I relate to the world. I can totally identify with her pain on losing all the photos and films her father had taken…losing those precious bits that were left is like experiencing the death a second time. Countless times really, as it continues to hurt each time one remembers it. I have always been drawn to photography as a way to document and save all the precious moments of the ones I love while they are still here. When one is young time and life seems endless but, as we grow older, we learn all too quickly how fleeting it is and that increases the urgency of living each day with intention and drinking in as much beauty as possible. Nature is the greatest teacher for this and I always find the most peace and serenity in observing and working in my garden or anywhere out in Nature. As a botanical artist, I also find great joy and even meditation when drawing or painting plants. They are a gift to the world.

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  18. Carol on

    The grief of loosing the family’s belongings in their homeland and the eventual death of her father is such a terrible loss. I was so drawn into how that sadness has shaped the beauty of the flowers she photographs, and her need to secure their history within her books. Such a lovely video, so healing! I am so grateful to have experienced a pertion of her legacy Erin!! Thank you also for all of your efforts to save the heritage of your roses and share their beauty.
    Carol

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  19. Patti Nusbaum on

    I understand how she connects through family and the beauty of nature. It was our generational love of gardening for food and flowers and creating in the kitchen that connects with each generation in my family.

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  20. Sarah on

    I love how the thread of her fathers legacy showed in so much of her interview. His love of their family and his love of roses has so sweetly influenced the course of Ngoc’s life and she in turn is leaving a legacy for those who come after her. 💛

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  21. Cheryl Rogers on

    Her deep bond somehow relates so beautifully to her goals of preservation. Keeping the memories alive through the living beauty of the flowers. That’s precious and her words are so healing and present.

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  22. Ivana on

    I love how Ngoc considers that each rose variety tells a story. I was also moved by how she sees roses that were planted by her father in the garden as a connection to him, like how I see petunias that my mom had planted as a connection to her. Flowers really do hold memories and stories!

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  23. Ivana on

    I love how Ngoc considers that each rose variety tells a story. I was also moved by how she sees roses that were planted by her father in the garden as a connection to him, like how I see petunias that my mom had planted as a connection to her.

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  24. Sue Kusch on

    Oh my goodness, I write this with tears in my eyes. What a loving tribute to her father, her love for beauty, and the act of caring. What I am wrote down to ponder: “To show the tenderness instead of the violence” “Looking for the magic in the flowers” and “Beauty is Medicine”. Beautifully videography.

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  25. Maureen Liongson on

    I could feel her sense of sadness when she retold her story of loss and in spite of the world, sometimes, being harsh and violent we can still find beauty. Through her photography, you can see the uniqueness of life and form a connection with ourselves and our stories.

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  26. Kirsty on

    This interview reminded me of my own father, an avid gardener. He liked to quote Keats: “Beauty is truth, truth beauty – that is all ye know on earth, and all ye need to know.” I found both this interview, and Ngoc Min’s work, sublimely beautiful. Capturing the tenderness of things is, in a way, revealing truth. It lifted my spirits – thank you!

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  27. MARIA THERESA on

    When Ngoc said, she always looking for the magic in the flowers.
    Through her photography, she can share how wonderful what the nature can heal her soul from the passing of his father.
    Thank you Erin 🫶🌸

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  28. Sheila Roos on

    I appreciate her effort and your effort to preserve the history of flowers through your individual talents. Thank you both for preserving so much beauty.

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  29. susan anderson on

    I loved that she stressed the beauty of roses and that it helps us see the good in the world.

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  30. Enma on

    Creo profundamente que el Amor es la fuerza más grande que existe. Sin duda alguna Ngoc nos demuestra una vez más que con “Amor podemos transformar todo”Rescilencia absoluta ante la adversidad de tener que mudarse y dejar toda su vida atrás, solamente los recuerdos en su memoria que quizás aún, por ser muy joven, eran muy vagos. Su Oda al Amor, sus palabras absolutamente inspiradoras y conmovedoras llenas de Pasión y Amor! Amo las flores y esta declaración de Amor me ha hecho sentir que puedo amarlas aún más y que estoy en el camino correcto. Gracias por tanta belleza!🙏🏻

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  31. Maribeth Scheidig on

    The video reminded me of another beautiful rose garden, one in Portland Oregon, where the scent of their 3,000 rose bushes and the scent wafts upward toward the Japanese Garden. Ngoc has a beautiful tenderness in her presentation that is relatable and admirable. Congratulations on the book!

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  32. Jennifer R on

    I wasn’t sure what this was going to be or what would resonate with me honestly, I thought I probably wouldn’t comment but as Ngoc spoke about her father, grief, loss and roses–I was reminded of my grandmother who died in 2019. It was odd how many themes were the same as Ngoc’s story. Before her death, my grandmother suffered a house fire in 2017 where most, but not all precious family photographs were lost. The house was a complete loss, but two bedrooms survived and so did my grandmother and uncle. Of course, that they were the most important, but it was heartbreaking for her not to have her family Bible and many other treasured photographs. As I remembered this, I remembered the fire and these simple knock-out roses she had in the original house. I live on the family farm and like the rest of our family helped with her care. At this time in her life suffering from dementia, she often relived memories, and a favorite memory were these knock-out roses were on clearance at the local Walmart for 50 cents or so her memory recalled time and time again. We would all know the story by heart and so after rebuilding, the contractor bought a few more knock out roses and planted outside the front window, where for the next two years even though she was often confused, she still told the 50 cent rose story. I bought three knock out roses after she passed and planted them on the road that connected my house to her house on our farm. I see them every day and some days, I don’t notice them at all but some days like today memories rush back–happy and sad but all full of love just like Ngoc’s story!

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  33. E. Lin on

    I had become familiar with Ngoc Minh Ngo’s work since her contribution to Bringing Nature Home, a copy of which I’d gifted to my mother. I had also been keenly anticipating her national book tour through the Garden Conservancy. I am grateful for how this film communicated her soft-spoken, grounded sensibility, her family’s personal connection to roses, and quite simply her extraordinary humanity. It is said that energy goes where attention flows. I appreciate Ngoc’s practice of bringing—and sharing—her awareness to tenderness, beauty, and healing in the face of hardship, violence, and harshness.

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  34. Sami on

    I was touched by her thoughts on art being a way to mediate and process the world around you through your own self and way of seeing. And how this can help others see the world differently.

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  35. Stephanie Waltz on

    When she mentioned always looking for the magic in the flowers.. that really struck a cord with me. In the garden there is so much beauty and its what keeps the wonder going.

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  36. Delia on

    The theme of loss and grief, resolved/accepted/softened by Ngoc as she carried her father through her photographic rose journey – this touched me.

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  37. Susan J on

    The entire film is so amazing! I like the flip through of her book. : )

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  38. Zaida on

    So touching as I too had to flee my country and there are only a few photographs of my childhood — only the ones that were mailed to an aunt living in the US. Childhood and family do shape us — in good and hard times. <3

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  39. Jennifer Stanley on

    I love her comments on the contrast of violence and beauty in the world and how it is a conscious choice as to where you put your efforts. Lovely.

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  40. Marianne Brereton on

    Ngoc is such a beautiful, gentle soul .
    I love how she combines the stories with the beauty of the flowers.
    What she said about her life and her experiences, with the loss of so much was deeply touching and sad, yet filled with so much hope and love.
    Her stunning photos are as she says “a way of keeping her father with her longer” but also a way to keep the magic alive for all of us for so many years to come.
    I’m deeply grateful for the way she has taken such difficult experiences in her life and turned them into something that is such a gift to others that brings with it the beauty and healing that is so clearly visible.

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  41. KarenAnn on

    I like that she focuses on the “tenderness of the world” instead of its violence. I need to hold on to that one 💕

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  42. Kelly on

    This was lovely. It just proves how strong our ties can become to family and flowers. I am personally very sentimental about certain family members and certain flowers because they bring such strong pleasant memories. I am so glad Ngoc told her beautiful story! What a painful experience to loose all your priceless photos. I am glad she is finding healing through photography and flowers, especially her dad’s roses.🥰🌹

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  43. Loretta D. on

    After losing my father unexpectedly in December, I really connected with Ngoc’s story and wish to keep her father’s memory alive. My dad enjoyed photography as well and I recently went through a collection of old Super 8 film that he took in the 70s. There’s so much grief and pain in this world, but it gives me hope to look at nature and see the beauty and tenderness in it.

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  44. Sarah on

    what a beautiful interview, thank you! I think the importance of saving heirloom varieties and how every plant has a story really resonated with me. I love the connection between plants and people and memory.

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  45. Belinda on

    It was wonderful to hear someone speak of kindness and beauty in a world that seems to be spinning out of control I’m so glad that she has such fond memories of her Father and that looking at roses are such a wonderful trigger to her feelings about him. I live in southern Oregon and have a climbing rose variety, Paul’s Crimson Climber, that my Grandad grew in England back in the early 1900’s. He was a postman and nicked a bit from a wealthy manor house and grew the cutting. He made many other cuttings over time, and many family members still grow it in their gardens and it somehow connects us all. I was able to find it here in America thanks to the Antique Rose Emporium. It has a rich family history attached, and whenever I linger under the arch that supports it, that connection washes over me. Thanks to Erin for preserving those very important old time roses.

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  46. Cat Wolfers on

    I loved her process of working on photos for the book as a way of prolonging her father’s time. Lovely video.

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  47. Laurie on

    Her comment about this being a way to keep her father with her made me cry. Beautiful.

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  48. Alexandra on

    Oh, what an inspiring interview. The part where she talks about how her work is about showing tenderness in a violent world (paraphrasing) stayed with me. Thanks for sharing this story with us.

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  49. Glenys Bragg on

    How beautiful, Ngoc is a beautiful person , it is truly special to be able to have a glimpse into her story through her photos , she brought a sense of serenity to my morning watching her video. I was touched by her comment about her parents ,that they had taught her to love and be kind , the very thing that seems to be missing in many people these days, Ngoc has reminded me kindness is the path to connect with such beauty all around us.

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  50. Patti Joyner on

    I am a painter. “You take something in the world and you process it through yourself. So, there’s a lot of yourself in it and it’s what makes that work different and unique.” No truer words even for a student and amateur like me. For practice I like to paint photos taken by photographers because the light and shadow are so dramatic. And the composition is so beautiful. But once I ‘process that photograph through myself” it becomes something totally unique.

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  51. LG on

    As a Cuban refugee, this film really impacted me and reminds me of a life left behind.
    xo
    Laura

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  52. Paula Smeltzer on

    The film is as sweet as the smell of my own roses. Particularly the ones that have a story attached to them. She connects people to kindness and peace. Her connection with her father his passing on this love of roses and his desire to have a better life for his family.

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  53. Taylor on

    Wanting the roses to bloom for her father really resonated with me. When my grandma passed away in the middle of tomato season it was unbelievable to me that she wasn’t there for a season she loved. It’s amazing the connections we make between people and plants. Really lovely video and interview!

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  54. Ramona Krueger on

    What a beautiful story. Thank you for reminding us to look for the magic in the flowers and to keep the stories alive for future generations. The beauty of this earth is truly a gift to humankind. May we all endeavor to be good stewards of it.

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  55. Kimerly Felger on

    OH MY! This was so very beautiful! When I was a young girl in high school, I tutored two girls who had fled Vietnam after the fall of Saigon. Their family was sponsored by the churches in our small town. I tutored them in English by way of French. I remember the laughter we shared and the privilege of being invited to their home. I have not thought of them for years and this short little video brought back a rush of memories…Truly, finding beauty brings us closer to God!

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  56. Deb on

    Her suggestion that beauty is medicinal struck a chord with me. What a gift God has given us in beauty—yesterday my neighbor’s first daffodil and a nesting bluebird who found our box soothed my tired heart. Thank you both for stewarding beauty so well.

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  57. Judy Sgantas on

    I have a similarity to hers in my artwork and I study always which gives me a better appreciation and a richness to my work.A story underneath,you can look at something for its face value or in its richness,photo or drawing go deeper.in any case it comes through and that’s wonderful

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  58. Jen Bolger on

    The world can be harsh and violent, but the beauty of nature will save us.

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  59. Diana on

    This video, as all of Floret’s videos do, showcases Nature’s powerful ability to heal us, especially with flowers. What touched me most was her telling of the way roses
    bring her Father back to her and continue to help her heal from his loss. Every time we see or smell a particular flower our loved ones cherished, it re-connects us to them,
    and they are with us again. Her respect for the power of all that flowers can give to our souls and sharing that with her work, it a gift to all of us.

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  60. Maria Wong on

    The way she talks about how each rose has a story and if they’re not grown anymore those stories are lost. In a way, through her work she’s capturing those stories so they can live on, with the beauty of the roses. Not only the story of each rose and how it’s come to be but also the meaning we’ve attached to them and how we’ve turned those stories into our own.

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  61. Gwen on

    I love how her photography is based on tenderness, finding the tenderness in this world. And learning the history and culture of the roses she is photographing makes the photos so much more meaningful.
    And now I want more roses!

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  62. Mary Shaima on

    Her description of the sense of loss she experienced when she learned the boxes of photos and films they left behind had been burned hit me on a deep level – a vindictive sibling did something similar when our last surviving parent died. I was riveted to her story of seeking beauty in a world that can be cruel as a reminder of her father’s goodness in spite of all he had suffered. Thank you for sharing this interview!

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  63. Sandra on

    What a beautiful and deeply moving story. Beyond her talent as a photographer, what truly touches me is the way she weaves her emotions into her art, using her camera to connect with her father. Through each photograph, she doesn’t just capture moments—she pours her heart into them, turning love, memory, and longing into something tangible and everlasting.

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  64. Regena Young on

    When she speaks of the Magic of the flowers it touched my soul, every winter I just wait for spring and
    The flowers to arrive again.

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  65. Laurie G Johnson on

    In pain and loss, joy still triumphs, is my takeaway here. And that beauty is resilient and amplified, as in the roses and in Ngoc…her father’s legacy. His greatest gift.

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  66. Beth on

    I am a huge fan of Ngoc’s work. It’s lovely to hear her speak and share some of the experiences that made her the artist she is today. I am delighted to see that two of my favorite creators, Ngoc and Floret found each other.

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  67. Ann Haines on

    Beautiful and touching. The loss of her family photos, of their stories, of their country, of their culture and then of her father. Looking back on those losses through the lens of beauty, flowers and roses. Her pain comes through but so does her joy of the beauty surrounding her.

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  68. Amy Koehn on

    How beautiful!! It is so impressive to me how she put forth an effort to find the beautiful and the lil snippets of tenderness here and there instead of becoming bitter in the hard times… that strikes a cord with me as I am currently going thru a rough spot in my life. It is such an encouragement to keep trying instead of giving in to the ugly when it’s hard.

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  69. Holly Moffett on

    A touching film filled with the beauty of roses…..flowers that remind us of the power of love and its ability to soften life’s sharp edges.

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  70. Nancy Burnett on

    Absolutely lovely. I am left with such beauty but also such pain but isn’t that the way of the world? Thank you, Erin, for sharing this.

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  71. Carrie Proulx on

    Loss of a loved one is profound, I loved hearing how she processed hers through roses and photography. Her work is very touching. Thank you for sharing.

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  72. Anung on

    I can understand the loss of self, having to leave behind a home country. My dad’s side also had to flee Laos to be a refugee in Thailand for a bit before being sponsored to come to America. They could only bring some clothes. My grandpa was a wood carver and did some here, but so much of that was lost to “modernization. But he grew a lot in his family. Some of us went back to see some of his older works at temples.

    This book and her photos are beautiful. Such stories interwoven with the people who love what they do.

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  73. Stephanie on

    What a lovely interview! Hearing Ngoc articulate the story of her connection with roses to her father truly resonated with me. There’s such a deep connection between the natural world and human beings. It brings a deeper understanding of a person when you are able to connect the beauty between something specific in nature to someone in your life and creates a connection with our loved ones. In my garden I purposefully grow Iris for my mom, peony’s for my grandmother, nasturtiums for my husbands grandmother, and roses for my mother-in-law. Each one brings me joy and connects me to them in a meaningful way.

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  74. Bonnie Henry on

    Thank you for sharing Ngoc’s life journey thru her love of gardening.
    My heart felt her pain of the photos that needed to be burnt, for the safety of her family!
    The love of her father and family. What a life to live in war, and how the thoughts of flowers carried her through difficult times to arrive to America.
    I too cared for family members in hospice.
    Life can be hard, sad and challenging.
    Flowers always makes me look at Life thru a beautiful kaleidoscope 💚
    Thank you Erin and to all your team for creating such beauty in bounty !!!!

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  75. Deborah Lemmer on

    Thank you for this beautiful interview. It was affirming and touching knowing how there are people in our lives who touch us so profoundly that they have such a lasting impact on our choices, our passions and our destiny. How special for Ngoc Ming Ngo to have had this bond with her father.

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  76. Gail King on

    When one looks at creation, different perspectives arise. I was deeply touched by Ngoc’s desire to show the tenderness of the world in her work vs. the harshness and violence that too often drowns out goodness, kindness and beauty. Some are consumed by the noise and ways of the world while others seek the silence, music and beauty of nature. Ngoc may have lost treasured photographic memories which were the footprints of her youth. However, she opened her heart and perhaps her soul to the gift of nature and learned how to photograph the whispered secrets of roses. The photographs shared in the video all embrace an amazing array of lighting perspectives. Each one reminded me of a single ray of light I sometime see dance across my roses after I’ve spent hours tending to them. That single ray of light that shines through and across the petals is what keeps me planting new roses every year. When I see the light in Ngoc’s photographs, I see the light of God shining through the cruelty of the world. It’s peaceful and serene. I would not be surprised if both God and Ngoc’s father smile every time a new rose bush is planted.

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  77. Debra on

    Ngoc Ming Ngo’s video “Seeing Through Tenderness”, truly leads us into her life’s journey, the wisdom she gained, and how she approaches her photography. The delicate way in which she captures the light and tells a story is heart warming. (I watched it three times!). The memories of her father have been transformed into a beautiful and inspiring testimony to him and his love of family, and to Ngoc’s life’s work. It all happened through the love of flowers. Flowers are the silent partners that touch our lives in so many ways.

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  78. Kari Schultz on

    Ngoc is a living breathing example of the love and connection of her history and relationship with her late father and how through her work she brings forth that which is a treasure to her with her beautiful photos, sharing with all and letting loving memories free her from the loss.

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  79. Linda L Gordon on

    Thank you for this beautiful interview. I came to love roses as a 10-year old. My aunt lived about 3 miles from our house. My parents allowed me to ride my bicycle over to her house where she taught me all about roses and shared her garden with me. Many, many years later, after she was gone and I had moved across the country, I planted my own rose garden where I had as many as 30 rose bushes, lilacs, hydrangeas and perennials. I love how Ngoc uses her photography as a ribbon that ties her to her father. Sometimes we think that children are not paying attention to what we hear and see. My story and Ngoc’s story illustrate differently.

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  80. Janice Hixon on

    Life began in a garden, so I believe that is why we get so much peace and joy when we create our own gardens. My parents were both gardners. My mother grew flowers and my daddy grew food. They were born in the mountains of Virginia and North Carolina during the great depression. They gardened to feed themselves, but even when that was no longer required, they both got immense joy from nurturing and sharing their bounty. I was moved to tears when she was explaining that grief is sharp. It is indeed! The hurt is so sharp it pierces our hearts, but does lessen with time. It never goes away, as evidenced by the emotion she revealed when she spoke about her father. It happens to me too! There is something soothing about having your hands in the dirt. My husband and I love gardening. We have tried to landscape our home into something beautiful as well as something benificial, for us, but also to attract birds and wildlife. It brings alot of learning and happiness as we watch these creatures go about their life, but saddness also, at times when we find a deceased friend. The tiny squeals a rabbit makes when an owl or other predator catches them is heart rending. It is the circle of life, and it is hard. They suffer as we also suffer.The beauty we strive to create with our plantings, also soothes the grief of our souls.

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  81. Sheril Schmidt on

    That was such a beautiful interview. I related to two things about it – which made me choke up. My parents have passed away and I wanted to do an album digitizing their old slides. Unfortunately we couldn’t find them. I was heartbroken about that. Also, my Dad loved roses! He even volunteered to be a reviewer of Burpee’s new varieties. I used to be enthralled with the colors and smells when I was young. I loved when she mentioned that she captures tenderness in the world – instead of the violence.

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  82. Sara Giswold on

    Why are my emotion overflow with tears as I watch Ngoc speak of her love of her Dad and roses? I realize my love of flowers also was passed down from my grandfather and mother. During WWII just because they were of Japanese decent, they were interred, sent to desolate parts of Idaho and Utah. They found comfort in growing vegetables and flowers (my grandfather, a local farmer, grew the best head lettuce but after the War, couldn’t sell it at Pioneer square market because he was Japanese). Growing up I watched my mother study Ikebana and later became a florist. I learned to arrange flowers, not by the book, but more by the eye, watching her. One day as I watched her prepare buckets of roses for a wedding event, I asked her, “Why did she singe and burn the newly delivered rose stem ends on the hot plate, as smoke and sparks flew off the ends of the roses. She said taking a big breath in and making a sucking sound: “They say OOOOoooch! and drink in more water!” Their droopy heads would perk up and look so happy, now ready for the wedding. Makes me laugh now to think of her saying that. Roses are so special to my heart, not only because they are so beautiful, but also they reminding me the memories and love for my mother.

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  83. Margaret Fontaine on

    I love how her work is such a beautiful tribute to her Father. So much love is poured into it on so many levels. As growers, we can only hope to provide that kind of emotion when someone receives our flowers. Her family overcame so much yet she carries kindness and beauty in her heart.

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  84. Stacey Randolph on

    What a beautiful story. Her stories of reflection as a child in her home country and the experiences in her new country with her father infusing his love of roses and the connection to him she carries with her at all times.

    I too find roses to be a centerpiece to my connection to my mom who had passed a year ago. Her love of our roses and the bouquets I often brought to her made her smile. Thank you for sharing this story.

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  85. Susan Shoop on

    What a moving emotional story.Her phoography and the roses ,learning from her friend and photographing all the beautiful flowers .It is a moving trivute to her father and keeps her connected to him.I also have memories of being in rhe garden sowing rows of seeds and weeding..Its wonderful how we connect the past to our lives today.

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  86. Sue Fritz on

    Ngoc mentioned several times about finding beauty in the world and she has found it through her photography and roses. The sweetness of her delivery, the softness of her smile, and her glorious attention to the most minute details found in roses touched my soul. The world may regularly deliver bad news. But, the world of nature, especially flowers, has a way of calming the soul, righting all wrongs, and helping us to realize that these glimpses of beauty are within our reach and are what makes living so wonderful! Thank you Ngoc for sharing your beautiful story.

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  87. Mercedes Diaz on

    Our family, just like Ngoc, had to flee a communist regime in the 1960’s. Everything was left behind, so as I grew up I felt had no connection to my past, my history, and the family that was left behind. I found solace, comfort and beauty as I pieced together the stories of what came before us. My garden, my flowers, my micro-farm they are my refuge and, I hope, part of the history and legacy I leave to my children and grandchildren.

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  88. Johnnie Shaver on

    In a world that is filled with anger, hatred, judgement and separation to see the world through her lens, the lens of beauty and of thoughtfulness is the hope humanity needs to cling to in order to flourish and regrow our hearts.

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  89. Cassie Schweizer on

    The tie between her family losing everything and how that led her to become a photographer makes so much sense. And then the connection between her father becoming a gardener and the roses not blooming before she dies leaves an incredible impact. This is such an honest and raw interview from Ngoc, and that’s not lost on anyone who reads it. To take something so difficult and harsh and turn it into something so beautiful is both incredible and fundamentally what roses are all about, and can be seen plainly in Ngnoc’s book and interview

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  90. Yolanda on

    Wow. There are so many things I liked about the interview. Thanks for introducing Ngoc to me, I am a photographer as well and though, I have given up on gardening and roses in the heat of Arizona, I still love to visit gardens and photograph flowers. I too, share stories of my father, who was a storyteller who came from Mexico as a child and worked in the field all his life. He was a very positive person and spoke only of the beauty in life. My mother was the flower gardener, and he learned to garden vegetables and fruit in his senior years. I have written a couple of books about and for my family, as well as a book about the other Mexican families from my hometown for the town’s museum to preserve their stories and experiences.
    I will be looking for Ngoc’s books and her work as I enjoyed her story, photography and interview.

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  91. Noreen Fougeray on

    Awe how touching your story is. Looking at your gorgeous pictures can only bring out smiles, though our heart may be very heavy with grief. My mom’s father many years ago crossed different flowers together. Not sure of the exact name for that. I never met my grandfather as he died when my mom was very young.
    But I would imaging that may be where I got such a love of flowers from. My mom’s favorite flower was orchids.
    And my daughter has a green thumb and LOVES and nature. It helps you to feel alive! Thank you for sharing those beautiful pictures . Reenie

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  92. Noreen Fougeray on

    Awe how touching your story is. Looking at your gorgeous pictures can only bring out smiles, though our heart may be very heavy with grief. My mom’s father many years ago crossed different flowers together. Not sure of the exact name for that. I never met my grandfather as he died when my mom was very young.
    But I would imaging that may be where I got such a love of flowers from. My mom’s favorite flower was orchids.
    And my daughter has a green thumb and LOVES and nature. It helps you to feel alive! Thank you for sharing those beautiful pictures . Reenie

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  93. Tay on

    Touching, beautiful story., beautiful lady ! Love this!

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  94. Chrissy Cottrill on

    Thank you Floret for bringing Ngoc’s story to our minds & hearts. Her mildness & kindness in the way she shared her experience was endearing. All flowers and plants have a special place in my heart but so does photography since I was young. I was known for having a camera in my hand wherever I went, often photographing flowers and landscapes. Flowers have a way of healing our hearts & taking us out of our minds. Ngoc’s eye for capturing creation or as she said “sharing what others might not see” is beautiful. Like Ngoc, I also learned to care from my parents. It’s one of the greatest gifts. When we care so much, we may have deeper grief to heal. Her words I felt wholeheartedly, “Grief at the beginning is so intense but after a while is less sharp and I can almost be happy in how he would marvel at the variety and abundance of it.” Roses are the essence of love, beauty and purity. Having them in our life helps us all to share our precious story. Thank you both for sharing yours.

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  95. Christy on

    Oh my goodness! I’m totally ugly crying now! I would say the most meaningful part of the interview is when she is hoping the flowers bloom one more time before her father passed but they didn’t bloom in time. She took that, her father’s love for gardening, and photography and turned it into healing medicine for her grief. There’s just something about being in nature and a garden that is healing! My grandmother grew roses also and they remind me of her.

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  96. Amrit K Rao on

    I appreciate the vulnerability Ngoc displayed in this interview. She chose to share her past and her grief of losing her father and how photography perhaps unconsciously become the bridge between the two. Nature and flowers have a way of providing beauty and solace in a world where life can be unpredictable and hard.
    Thank you Nov for sharing your story with us.

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  97. Tracy Grant on

    So many feelings stirred up while listening to this beautiful interview. My grandfather came from Denmark right at the beginning of WWII. He found much comfort in gardening. I spent a lot of my childhood helping him tend to the roses and planting tulips, daffodils and sweet peas to name a few. So naturally the garden is my place of comfort as well. This year, I made a garden area specifically for tulips in his memory. I feel him all around me. So I can relate to the feeling Ngoc gets from being amongst the roses, especially being a photographer myself. Like her, I also want to “show the world tenderness”

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  98. Shaundra on

    I like that she said her parents taught her to care, care about people, care about beauty, about the world around her. What a beautiful gift her parents gave her to care, it is evident in her words and her work.

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  99. Jill Getzendaner on

    What a wonderful story! I love how she talks about looking for the magic in the flowers. It’s always there. I feel the same way :)

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  100. Jessica Jacoby on

    Beautiful video. The quote she shared saying there is medicine in beauty.

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  101. Ginger on

    Thank you for the Peace filled visit in your garden.

    My family grew up and lived in the home of my grandfather. My grandfather taught all 6 children the love of gardening by example. His acre of property was filled with things growing and it was his quiet place with so many children in a 3 bedroom house.

    As I saw the photos of the climbing roses I thought of the one I have in my garden from my Grandfathers home. It is a flower with many vivid pink petals with a beautiful rose scent. As a young girl and as a adult woman I enjoy picking a rose, removing the petals and tossing the petals in the air and watch them gently fall to the ground.
    Your story and photographs are beautiful and bring joy to those whose lives it touches.

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  102. Helen Hartman on

    This film is a love letter from daughter to father. I love how the images and her words are intertwined.

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  103. Beth Jann on

    You always have the best video stories. They are so soul piercing and beautiful! When Ngoc talked about losing all her father’s photos and films of their family it hit me hard. I could feel the depth of that loss for her.

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  104. Nadia on

    …to show the tenderness instead of the violence of the world…

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  105. Tonya Johnson Riddick on

    Such a beautiful story from a beautiful woman. Seeing softness and peace in her photos did exactly what she envisioned: dispelled the darkness, if only for a moment. In this climate of negativity and hatred, beauty is the ONLY thing that invigorates me enough to keep a smile on my face and to continue to radiate love, even towards those who may think less of me because of my skin color. THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU Ngoc Minh Ngo, for continuing to share your passion, gift, and soul to us all…without artists like you, where would we be!!!!!! xoxo

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  106. LaShell Staley on

    Her peaceful calm and her sorrow really touched me I lost both of my parents when they were 69 and I was extremely close to my mother. I often still dream about her and she talks to me there.
    Her photography is beautiful and her comment about beauty being a medicine rings true with me and I’m sure others. She is a kindred spirit. Great clip!

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  107. Jen Hill on

    It was an honor to watch and share in her experience.
    I can relate in many ways, when my mom was alive, I would send her “virtual” bouquets as flowers in my garden would bloom. We shared a deep love of flowers and I never linked it to caring, she was by far the most loving and caring person I have ever had the pleasure of knowing. I have recently been dabbling with the idea of starting a flower farm as a living memorial to honor her.
    This video offers such validation in focusing on the healing in nature and beauty and the power of sharing that with others
    Thank you 💗

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  108. Lucinda B. McKechnie on

    Like Ngoc, my Father was an inspiration for my love of gardening. His kindness and gentle demeanor was displayed in the rose gardens he established in our back yard. As a little girl, I loved following him around learning from his horticultural expertise. While he passed away decades ago, he lingers with me every time I move through my gardens.

    Ngoc’s voice and understated elegance was refreshing to hear and see, especially with the current turmoil in the United States. As a former volunteer for Operation Smile I, “served” several years in regions of Vietnam all over the country. The people are genuinely caring. Her story of escape, loss of history, and new beginning is at once riveting and mournful. I heard the story many times over when in Vietnam.

    Thank you for this touching video with exceptional photography. A treasure.

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  109. Holly Hagy on

    Lovely interview! I have one of her books, which I cherish. I had no idea she was doing one on roses! Roses are my everything! My purpose, my passion and my healing. I have had several major losses in my life and the roses have always helped me through them.
    The part of her interview that touched me the most was that the roses did not bloom in time for her father to see them. This breaks my heart but…He saw the buds on them which gives me hope that the blooms were all waiting for him when he passed to the other side.
    Peace, love and blessings.

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  110. Cynthia Wicker on

    What a lovely presentation of Ngoc Minh Ngo’s meaningful story. I related most to how she connects roses to thoughts of her father and learned to appreciate them. She sees their beauty because of him. It is her way to turn grief into happiness. The entire story moved me.

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  111. Fei on

    This blog is one of the reasons I am loving to read blogs around. There are so many strong feelings in people life, and they can take beautiful things out of it, and Ngoc does it in a so touching way.

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  112. Charrie VanVleet on

    So beautiful. My heart, I can relate. My Father is also my inspiration in my garden world. Thank you for sharing.

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  113. Robin Stickney on

    💕 such a moving & beautiful story, by a very lovely photographer/ naturalist. The story of her beginnings with her family in Viet Nam was incredibly moving in itself. Her understanding of the beauty & magic that Roses… and flowers in general provide to the world is something we, as gardeners truly understand. I have been following Florets journey to preserve many roses, however this film really captures what a success that has been… and shows the magic of Florets gardens in a way that I can only liken to the ‘magic’ of Findhorn. It’s right there beneath our feet, and surrounding us, the magic that we are able to tap into. My heart just grew a little more… beat a little harder…from the time I heard her voice thru to the end of the film. We all need that, so thank you!

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  114. Linda Andereggen on

    I carry my father with me, too, Ngoe, and my mother, too. Fleeing your home must have been very difficult. How wonderful that you can cherish your time with roses to honor your father. I look forward to reading your upcoming book about roses. Your other titles sound interesting as well.
    Thank you, Erin, for bringing us Ngoe’s story & introducing her work through this lovely film.

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  115. Tammy Grieder on

    I loved so much so thank you for such a thought provoking video. I loved that your parents cared and taught you to care and that you still carry your father with you..

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  116. Renée Siegan on

    I lost my husband 16 months ago, and I miss the bouquets of flowers he used to bring me often. The beauty of flowers transcends the violence and harshness that Ngoc reminds us is part of our world. It is an elixir for the soul. The video is a calming reminder to stop and smell the roses.

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  117. Candace Chamlee on

    I was captivated by Ngoc’s quiet manner as she displayed great courage in sharing vulnerable thoughts and memories with us. Her message of experiencing the world differently and her examples of the connections that can be found through a garden- to the past, our passions, and one another, was a lovely moment in my day. I was reminded of my dad’s love of lilacs, my mom’s love for her yellow rose, and the daylilies I moved to my house after they had passed. Ngoc’s photography and perceptions encouraged me to pause and consider the potential that can come from a shared love of something.

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  118. Corisa Nielsen on

    Such a beautiful video. Thank you for sharing. I LOVED ‘always finding the magic in the flowers…beauty is medicine for the world’. Truer words were never spoken. Every single thing of beauty provides magic and healing. It’s there waiting to be discovered.

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  119. Lucy C on

    Thank you for sharing this lovely story.

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  120. Laura Carpenter on

    Thank you for creating this beautiful video to share Ngoc’s incredibly heartfelt story. Beauty in nature is an elixir for the soul. Ngoc captures it in such an emotional way. Her father I am sure found incredible joy and comfort in his life with his garden and roses. Through her grief and in honor of her father Ngoc was able to capture and create something for all of us to enjoy. The video was so beautiful I could almost catch the scent of roses in the air!

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  121. Teresa Simin on

    Ngoc’s beauty is so very deep… from the magic she sees in the flowers to the healing she derives from them. So many powerful thoughts, but I think what resonates with me most is what she said in her closing, that the world can be very hard and harsh and violent but it can also be very beautiful and it is good to be reminded of that. In this time of chaos and unpredictability, those words are very powerful and give one hope. Thank you for this beautiful video. 🩷

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  122. Diana Purkey on

    What a lovely video. The quote that will stay with me is “Beauty is medicine for the world.”

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  123. Kristell Mazzuco on

    As a farmers daughter and an Italian family daughter in law I felt like I was back in the 70’s when your garden was your life. We had school and real jobs but no matter what family and gardens were our familia. As a retiree I still have my gardens and flowers that I now share with my nieghbors and family and grandkids. I also give back to the Community with 4H, retirement centers, senior communities and Hospice We are so blessed we need to share our heritage with others

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  124. Mary Jo Wilkison on

    How heart-breaking to have the family photos destroyed. I can’t imagine having to leave home like that, it is amazing how calm she seems now. Gardens have a way of instilling peace.
    Her love for her father was touching also. I can imagine how she wanted those roses to bloom for him. I loved the beautiful photography and flowers. Thanks for making that available to us.

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  125. Darlene Throndson on

    N gov is such a kind and gentle soul. She speaks from the heart. The story of the family burning all their personal possessions was heart wrenching. The roses she photographed were so beautiful.

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  126. Ellen Richardson on

    Several things especially registered with me: her saying “I carry him [her father] with me.” Also, that “beauty is medicine.” I enjoyed hearing that her father was a caring person and through that, she learned to care. 🌹

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  127. Reba on

    Thank you Erin and Team for another very thought provoking interview. It is so amazing how flowers have such a big impact on our lives past and present. That our memories are so deeply drenched in flowers and the heart of which keeps these memories alive season after season. To think that a special flower like a rose can provoke such a strong emotion/memory about a loved one. Ngoc is a lovely, calming, and talented person! Thank you for sharing her story! Congratulations on being a part of her story.

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  128. Sandra A. Eisele on

    I have visited several hospitals with Healing Gardens, and when I was working ( I am a retired Orthopaedic Surgeon) I assisted my hospital in Cincinnati to develop a rooftop rose garden when a new addition was built. It is a way of encouraging staff, patients and visitors to set aside the present day, to marvel at the beauty and tenderness of the roses, for a brief time put present or past losses on hold for a time, and keep the beauty of life in the present. As Ngoc stated, beauty is medicine. And this is why I grow roses as well.

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  129. Janine Kilduff on

    I can truly understand the ability of flowers bringing back a memory of a time, place, and person that has been lost and was deeply m. I spent my childhood in Germany and moved by Ngoc’s story. I also moved to the US at a young age because of my father being in the military, but I always thought abouy the garden my great grandmother tended her entire life that I saw when we were in Germany and the huge garden my aunt had before she passed away at 55. Even know after my the loss of them both, I still think back to the flowers and plants they grew and have a deep love for flowers. They can truly take you back to the past and allow you to relive moments that are lost in time. I truly appreciate Ngoc sharing her story with the world.

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  130. Cheryl Belczak on

    This is an absolutely beautiful film. Thank you so much for creating and sharing this. Such a lovely inspirational and aspirational collaboration. I’m really looking forward to the book! As a photographer drawn to flowers myself there were so many parts of this interview that impacted me and resonated deeply including all the stunning imagery throughout this film. Also so many insights I will carry with me including the opening and closing quotes that are thoughtfully encouraging. Another nugget I’ve found to be so true is “… a deepening knowledge of things will always reward you with a better appreciation.” Thank you, Floret and Ngoc Minh Ngo, for sharing your knowledge to deepen our appreciation.

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  131. Tracy Russell on

    The emotion in Ngoc’s voice when she describes loss in her childhood was heartbreaking and impactful for me. The music is achingly beautiful, also.

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  132. Michelle Uelze on

    My father-in-law struggles deeply with the memory of coming home as a soldier from the Vietnam war and being hated for his participation. He eventually burned his uniform, his photographs, his purple heart metal…everything. He has since regretted that decision and struggles with it. He kept trying to tell me it felt like –a loss that he couldn’t recuperate. That was brought into such clarity when Ngoc said that when running away from her family’s war, her housekeeper burned the mementos. Hearing about her pain made me finally understand so much. Thank you for sharing her words and her inspiration. Another example of how the arts and crafts of photography and flowers can heal wounds.

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  133. Leonie atkinson on

    I can only envision the heart-wrenching anguish that comes from losing all the family photographs. It’s truly inspiring how she transformed that grief into an embrace of gentleness rather than anger, showcasing her profound love for her family and honoring her father’s affection for roses. Similarly, I’ve decided to cultivate roses in memory of my mother’s fondness for them; it makes me feel a deeper connection to her. What a poetic tale of love and loss, beautifully mended by the grace of roses.

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  134. Colleen Fitzgerald on

    The tenderness felt for her dying father and wanting the roses to bloom outside his window, had deeply resonated in my heart.

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  135. Lorna Goodell on

    For Ngoc to be able to see the beauty in the world after loosing everything as a child is amazing. Not very one can do that. I was struck by her gentleness.

    A garden should bring peace to your very soul. Clearly Ngoc sees and understands that, and it shows in her photos.

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  136. Cynthia Carpenter on

    Gosh! This was such a beautiful and heartfelt documentary/ memoir. I was touched by what a gentle soul Ngoc is especially in light of the trauma she and her family experienced, ultimately having to flee their country and all tangible record of her family’s past being destroyed. I am so impressed by how she is able to transform that pain and memory into beauty in an effort to cause more and temper, as she said, all the violence. Thank you for producing this powerful movie and bringing her story to many. Namaste 🙏🏻

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  137. Carol deSousa on

    I was very moved by Ngoe’s story and how beautifully she spoke. Her father had to have been a very special man to have served in the Vietnam war and afterward was still able to impart such a strong importance of the need to be caring to others to his children. What a blessing he must have been. Flowers are truly healing because they freely give beauty asking for nothing in return. Thank you Erin & Ngoe for sharing this very touching story!

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  138. Karen Knitter on

    The beauty of roses healed her and her family. Such a beautiful story.

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  139. Emily Silber on

    What impacted me the most was hearing how she became a photographer—especially after experiencing the massive loss of her family’s photographs and memories. She mentioned it wasn’t a conscious decision, but a subconscious one, which really struck me—how the past can shape your future in such a profound way. The influence of her father, an amateur photographer, also stood out—how she carries his presence with her and uses photography to show the beauty in the world. It made me reflect on how grief, while painful, can also be a source of creation and beauty.

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  140. Charity Hoffman on

    What a beautiful and soothing video that was, with a touching and bittersweet story to tell. I was struck by the line, “It was a way of keeping my dad with me.” Indeed, in our deepest grief, the soul seeks ways to keep our memories alive.

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  141. Sue Rogers on

    This almost had me in tears, as I remembered my father. He wasn’t the gardener, but so appreciated my
    mother’s garden. Thank you, Erin, for sharing this. And thank you, Ngoc, for your beautiful photography, and beautiful words.

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  142. Brenda Rhea on

    “I carry him with me….” Yes…Roses connect us with the past and sadly our losses in a way that allows us to go on living and remember our loved ones as we wander through a garden….Is there a better way to pay tribute to our loved ones whom we have lost? I was in college during the Vietnam War….and would say to her how much I admire her father and family’s strength and determination to survive those turbulent years. She sees her father in roses; we lost our boy in the last war….I have roses in my garden to honor him…as well as my grandmother who raised me…and friends I have lost along the way. Roses soften our pain and give us hope….they are old friends who great me when I walk my garden in the morning and afternoon…they stay with me year after year…and always make room for more….If only we could all see the world through Miss Ngo’s eyes….what a world that would be.

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  143. Melissa Carroll on

    What a wonderful story of hers, and how she wanted to know your story also, gathering of information is powerful. Erin you are the only one true grower of flowers that I truly know of, that grows such gorgeous dahlias and beautiful other flowers. The only flower that really resonates with me is the beauty of roses. It’s the only flower that my daddy gave to my mother-ever! She absolutely loved them and tried to make them last forever, keeping the water clean and pressing them afterwards in our family Bible. And well, me being a girl, I only could resonate love through roses. My Daddy is gone now, since 2010. I miss him too. When I see roses now, I smile because I remember my daddy and the love he shared. Thank you Erin

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  144. Shelley Winship on

    “Beauty is medicine for the wound.” Thank you for sharing this with the world!

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  145. Amanda Eastvold on

    Her connection to her father through the roses reminded me of me and my dad. Beauty as medicine was also an extremely powerful statement and it is the antidote for our troubled world.

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  146. Diane on

    Ngoc has such a beautiful soul. Having recently lost my beloved mom who gave me my love for flowers, Ngoc’s statement that most resonated with me is “A deepening knowledge of things will always reward you with a better appreciation.” I am finding this to be of true in my friend and family relationships as well as my growing love in flower gardening. Life has its challenges . . . nothing if more rewarding than spending time and enjoying God’s natural creations. Definitely medicine for one’s soul.

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  147. Nancy Fuller on

    I share Ngoc’s perception of beauty as medicine. Beauty in a world that can often be very ugly is the greatest gift for healing and overall good health. A lovely flower from a certain perspective, a traveling caterpillar munching as he crawls, a wave receding on a rocky shore… these things are gifts for the soul of man. She has acquired wisdom and ultimately extracted joy from the natural world. What a great gift! A joyful heart is good medicine! This I think was what spoke to me in this video. And the greater gift of sharing that with others!

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  148. patty krengiel on

    I love that she feels the photographs she takes shows the tenderness of the world instead of the violence. The video was beautiful.

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  149. Suzie Campbell on

    I love her story. I can definitely relate to her story. My father was very similar to her father. My father was very kind, caring and he was my world. I planted gladiolus flowers in memory of my father. I plan to add roses this year and hoping I can get a Blue Girl rose. I’m adding Peonies in memory of my grandfather and hydrangeas for my grandmother. My mother loves Irises which I already planted those in her favorite color of purple. I’ve also got Lily of the Valley for my other grandma and because it’s my birth flower. My family has a love of flowers. My mom is the only one left to learn flowering from. I grow these flowers to keep them alive. 29 years after I lost my father to cancer still feels like yesterday. I can’t wait to see her book.💐 Thank you for sharing your interview Erin. It was so beautiful 🥰🙏

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  150. Victoria on

    Ngoc has a beautiful innate spiritual quality to her art. I love her connection to her father and how he has inspired her to take photographs of what makes her happy and share it with others through her book on roses. It is so moving to see through her eyes this special relationship that has shaped her as a photographer. The fact that she has said that roses are like having her father with her, in a sense, is like having that rose next to her always. What a beautiful story on moving forward in life with meaning and purpose.

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  151. Sharna on

    I loved this beautiful tribute to roses and her dad. I think the part that touched me most was her statement that there is such ugliness in our world, but that by taking the time to really see the roses and their beauty- it reminds us of what is good.

    I too am reminded of my mother when I tend to my roses, as those were her favorite. I feel closest to her with my beautiful fragrant Little Prince rose. Thanks to Floret for sharing this video and story.

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  152. Moira Eick on

    Two of Ngoc’s comments stuck with me: her mission “to show beauty as you have not seen – to show the tenderness of the violence of the world – and it’s good to be reminded of that.” She reinforces that theme near the end of her interview when she says, “the world can be very hard and harsh and violent but it can also be really beautiful and it’s good to be reminded of that.”

    I loved her introspective, gentle and serene manner – the quick glimpse of her book looks breathtaking!

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  153. Susi Mitchell on

    Thank you so much for sharing this beautiful video and interview with Ngoc. It is so personal and so delicate but quite moving. The photography is captivating and I watch it over and over. I love her story and her photos. What impacted me the most from this interview was when Ngoc talked about the pain of grief and the happiness she feels through flowers and her photography of them. She said she carries her father with her, and I feel that she is seeing the roses with her father‘s eyes, a gift he left with her that was much more precious than the boxes of his photos that were lost. And she continues to share that gift with the world.

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  154. Jules on

    This is was a beautiful piece, Erin. Thank you for making and sharing it. Ngoc’s story is sad, beautiful, and inspirational. She has a quiet and peaceful presence. What a beautiful soul she is. I love that her work with roses makes her feel closer to her father. I believe her work on this book was a healing journey for her.

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  155. Cyndi Tippett on

    I loved the part when she said the roses keep her father close to her and when she sees beauty even when the world is hard and harsh. The book looks stunning.

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  156. Sheila on

    I loved how she expressed her depth of emotion! I was almost in tears along with her, and could feel how deeply she experienced life, pain, beauty, love for her father and for nature! Wow!!! What an amazing woman!

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  157. Jeni Koebel on

    At the very beginning, she shares the idea of how really seeing something makes you want to learn about it and when you learn about it you can appreciate and understand it more. I teach first grade and am always working on my students’ observation skills, especially in nature. We take class hikes to a nearby nature jewel, Forest Park in St. Louis. I challenge them to use all of their senses and bring sketch books to see what they might not have seen upon their first look. They unravel that this work helps them appreciate their world and want to take care of it. Thank you to Ngoc for this important work of capturing the tenderness in our world so we can all appreciate and keep it that way.

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  158. Cindy McCullough on

    My mom passed in October 2023. My favorite picture is one of her in her own rose garden. She had such peace there, probably similar to how Ngoe’s father felt in his garden. So many feelings right now. Thank you so much for posting!

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  159. Holly Sedwick on

    I immediately connected with Ngoc when she began with “taking something in the world, processing it within and through yourself, and sharing that beauty with others in ways they may not have seen it before”. The magical process of creation is ongoing. An idea or spark ignites, takes hold, grows and continues to evolve as a fresh expression when shared with others. Creating things in nature, like imagining a garden area or growing flowers, is an expression of that energy for me. It brings me joy and it’s where I find peace. Her parting thoughts felt like a benediction, blessing us to go forth and “look for the magic in the flowers … it’s always there”.

    Thank you, Erin for continuing to share things that you, too, find beautiful, for reminding us to “see with tenderness”, and for helping to awaken and nurture that energy within others❤️

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  160. Pam Martens-Cox on

    First, I was impacted emotionally by Ncog’s story, as I have a dear friend named Dao, with a similar tale. My friend also had a high ranking Father in the South Vietnamese Army. They were not able to flee soon enough from Viet Nam, as her Father was captured early on, and held in prison in North Vietnam for 10 years. The family lost everything (home, business, money, hope, and even a reason to live at times). Yet her Mother had to make sure all the children survived, while enduring hunger, hopelessness, and even physical attacks from the Vietcong soldiers, amidst some of the worst hardships I’ve heard of. Similar to tales of what innocent, Jewish people endured under the Hitler/ Nazi regime in WWII, in concentration camps, etc. My friend and her family fled to the US after the Viet Nam war, and after they were miraculously reunited with her Father. She has since lost both of her parents here in the US,- who remained kind, gentle, and grateful, despite all they’d been through. Also, Dao has a heart full of love and gratitude, despite all she witnessed and endured, with an appreciation for nature, same as Ncog. I thought of my good friend, while hearing Ncog’s similar story of her life and love of nature and roses.

    Also, ROSES are my absolute FAV flowers and always have been. I was introduced to roses at a very early age, by my maternal Grandparents. Also, after Grandma (whom we called Baba) became widowed, she started a tradition of giving me a rose bush each year for my birthday, at the point when I had my own home. So, I would receive a different rose bush every year in August from her, ending up with me having a large rose garden by the time we lost dear Baba. Roses will always hold a special place in my heart and soul and are very special to me.

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  161. Jane on

    I felt my heart swell during the entire film, so it’s hard to come up with just one thing that impacted me, but when Ngoc said ‘we have to care’, I sort of gasped. Yes. We do. And it was so clear how much she does. Well done Floret, you’ve made a beautiful film here, capturing (in just 10 minutes!) the beauty, the gentleness, the kindness and yes, the caring, of this lovely woman. Bravo and thank you.

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  162. Margo on

    I also grew up during the Vietnam war but I was fortunate to have done so in the United States. I was 5 years old when we (US) got into the fighting and I was 16 when it ended. Sadly the war was very much a part of my childhood. I’m having a difficult time expressing my profound sadness in words when I heard that Ngoc’s housekeeper needed to remove all evidence of the family’s existence in hope that they could make it out of Vietnam alive. Fortunately Ngoc & her father were able to embrace the joy that so many us gardeners experience through our flowers.

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  163. Marion Heim on

    Ngoc’s video & the pictures of the roses the story of her father&his love for roses fill my soul with so much peace.

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  164. Don on

    Whoa! Seriously, didn’t expect that impact. From a flower story! Ms. Ngo’s father and mother making the decision to flee their home and posessions leaving only “memories” which Ms. Ngo so unassumingly seem gravitated to without real, honest purpose as to the “why,” to only discover it later in life. Her father’s love for gardening and specifically the rose seems so poetic coming from such a war torn country and he being a militry man himself. The juxification is not lost on me, being a military veteran myself. Yet, in his wisdom, and love for his family managed to teach his daughter to love, be kind and honor ones surroundings. Yes, the impact hit me unexpectedly with tears welling up I had to stop the video twice to catch my breathe. I asked myself how was this possible! This is a video about ‘Roses,’ or so I thought. I was so very much relating to her, her family and the words she spoke. I too, come from a military family. I recently lost my dad–who, go figure, had a love for roses. I’m just discovering my love of flowers. Thank you Floret for creating a community. And, thank you Ms. Ngoc Minh Ngo.

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  165. Ellen Bauee on

    I related to the statement Ngoc made when she said, “So much of my work is about how I feel when I’m doing it.” I love every step of the gardening process from looking for new plant varieties to watching the plants emerge and develop, and every step in-between. It makes me feel grounded and connected to the earth and proud to be an ambassador and teacher of gardening. This was a very unique and beautiful story of love, loss, and renewal.

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  166. Kathryn on

    I loved her comment ” Beauty is medicine for the wound”. Her loss of her home and then all the photographic memories seemed to shape her life’s work, which is beauty itself!

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  167. Valarie Dunlevy on

    What an inspiration the see and hear Ngoc’s story. What a wonderful statement to hear her say “…she wants to show the tenderness in the world, rather than the violence of the world”.
    This video and her perspective is so heartwarming and inspirational! Thanks so much for sharing.

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  168. Elissa Arnold on

    Ngoc’s selfless sharing of breathtaking photos is a true gift to the world.
    Knowing, cherishing roses, is simplistic and oh so lovely!
    A true artist!

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  169. Michele Whitlock on

    She invoked a feeling of calm among the gardens which is what I hope for my garden. It encourages me to continue to build my garden into a place of peach and where I can practice meditation.

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  170. Tammy Makoul on

    What a gift it would be to receive her new book – a piece of work in print! The part of the movie? The whole piece of peace, calm and an eye for beauty which focuses on stories, growth, and art in its most beautiful forms.

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  171. Kate Grinde on

    I love how she credits her parents, especially her father, with her sense of caring as it was soooo important to them.

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  172. Susan on

    Thank you for making this lovely interview available!

    The stresses of the world right now are very hard for many of us. This interview is a lovely interlude that reminds me to focus on the beauty around us. I’m sharing it with several friends who are grieving loved ones. Hoping that this interview will create a butterfly effect in the worlds of my dear friends.

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  173. Erin P. on

    I was interested in the story of how the power of losing her family’s photographs may have led her to develop an interest in photography as an adult. She is such a talented photographer and has been being beauty to our lives for decades now, so I am grateful she became a photographer. I still have magazine shoots of hers that I saved from back then. Thank you for spotlighting Ngoc Minh Ngo!

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  174. Paula on

    I loved this video and story, enclosed. I was touched by the visual changes produced by focusing in the foreground, and then focusing on the background of the same image. It brought to mind the fact that things can look so different depending on what you focus on. I understand the feelings of loss and how that relates to roses. This last Fall I lost my beloved golden retriever, he would slowly travel with me every morning to the yard as the temperatures dropped, and we would gather roses together to save them from the frost, while leaving buds, hoping for another day of blooms. I still have the tarnished trophy full of dried yellow roses gathered on his last morning.

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  175. Melissa Ruktanonchai on

    What a beautiful story! Thank you so much for sharing. I’m struck by her authenticity and love the part that she describes the aspect of photography and art as processing it through the viewer and sharing the way you see beauty in the world. We definitely could use more beauty in the world today. Excited to see her new book!
    Melissa

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  176. Carol on

    When Ngoc said, “I’m always looking for the magic in the flowers. That magic is always there.” That comment really spoke to me because I left a job in banking to become a flower gardener. Working outside and being a part of the natural world changed every part of my being. What a beautiful soul. I have tears in my eyes.

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  177. Rhonda Chilton on

    Ngoc commented about the “way of seeing” and she looks with tenderness at her subject matter. Her words of the way of seeing really stick with me. My husband (who grew up in the photo industry) and I travel frequently and we will both take pictures of a particular place we’re visiting. It is always amazing to see when we get home the different “ways of seeing” we each had of the same place.

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  178. Helen Wang on

    Loved how she framed roses as storytelling agents, preserving histories and cultures while bringing joy and tenderness to people all around the world! It’s both empowering and endearing…Truly beautiful 🙏

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  179. Tina Maudsley on

    Thank you for introducing me to this wonderful lady, what a story! I already feel so connected to you as I also recently lost my Father & he was very connected to the garden which we share in common. I was saddened by your story about losing your families pictures and how much of an impact that has had on your life but am overjoyed with how you turned that into the creative energy that fuels your beautiful work. I know what you mean when you say he is with you that you carry him in the garden. It’s the same way for me with my late husband and now my Father. I can’t wait to see your photos and read your books!

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  180. Lisa A on

    Amazazing!!
    She is such a beautiful person! I’m so happy I took time to watch this interview, looking forward to her book!
    The roses are breathtaking!
    I lost my father not long ago and I have healed through gardening – for me it’s been lavender and poppies!

    I loved watching this – beautiful and so very inspiring!
    Thank you

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  181. Gayle Wilson on

    Toward the end Ncog said that the world can be very harsh but there is always beauty and we have to look for that. I can’t imagine anything more beautiful than looking out on a garden whether it is in full bloom or resting for the winter.

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  182. Amy Van Pelt on

    I was most struck by Ngoc’s comments about grief, and how strong and hard it is at the beginning. But that now when viewing the roses she thinks of him and how he would have marveled at their beauty and variety. And she can think of him with happiness.

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  183. Kim on

    What a treasure this Author and her deep meaningful story bring to my day! Thank you for sharing this timely message. We all need to see the beauty of Life.

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  184. Briana on

    The most beautiful part of this interview for me was the connection she shares with her father through roses. There was a parallel between the preservation of the roses and the continuance of her father’s presence in her life that was truly heartwarming.

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  185. Judi Tsuchida on

    Watching this interview made me cry and reminded me of my mom. Her love for roses brought her so much joy that she had over 450 rose plants in her garden. As a child we had to dead head and made me hate roses but now I see the joy and love she had for them and I am now adding rose plants to my garden. I will never have 450 but 10-20 works for me! What I learned is your past influences your future and she made a positive outlook from a life that was torn away from them by war. She remembers the good of her dad’s love for roses and has turned her talents into a career that we can all enjoy and make us stop and smell the roses.
    Thank you for bringing Ngoc to your garden to share with all of us!

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  186. Donia Lilly on

    What touched me the most was that “beauty is medicine for the world.” ❤️‍🩹

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  187. Diane Gabriel on

    Another great author feature from Floret. What will stay with me about Ngoc is her outlook on grief, how it transformed from this sharp thing to a lightness and almost happiness of carrying her father with her to witness all of the beauty and variety. I agree with her that beauty is a salve, in a world rife with violence, and I find it encouraging that her personality of being this gentle person has made her movement through the world without needing to be loud. The photographs that you shared had roses in them, almost like clues about the shape that her future would hold. I am looking forward to reading her book on the histories behind the plants she chooses to share about. It is delightful to see how plants play a part in the lives of immigrant families in the United States, and the generations that follow them. The stories behind the lens, as she says, are richer when you know more about the subject in an intimate way.

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  188. Sally King on

    Exquisite! My heart deeply touched by the beauty and tenderness of an ancestral journey flowing through the spirit of love and loss to reach me here, today. I am transfixed at how beauty can find its way into our souls through one flower, the rose, captured in a photo and on film to standing on the earth in her presence. Thank you dear sister, Ngoc Minh Ngo, for sharing your life and love of roses. I am truly inspired & captivated.

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  189. Lorrie Franklin on

    I am in Canada and understand I am not eligible to win but wanted to leave a comment anyways. I was really touched by her family story and her closeness to her Dad and how she always remembers him. I have lost my Dad too and always miss him as well. Her soft and calm ways are beautiful to witness as I am sure her younger years were met with a lot of chaos so wonderful her family was able to thrive in a new country.

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  190. Jacqueline Crouch on

    A comment Ngoc made that resonated with me is that “art is a process of mediation”. How our creativity can be a means for each of us to achieve a resolution to our conflicts. The beauty of our art can be healing, not only to ourselves.

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  191. Lois Prouting on

    To lose your past in photograghs is a huge loss.Then one must use memory only.Any positive from great negative is inspiring to everyone, everywhere.And to take gentleness and kindness in the face of great violence as a path instead of bitterness , revenge and anger is a path well trodden ,well chosen and providentially found..Beauty from ashes.
    Roses were my path I was led to when my father died in great pain Roses were where I found relief from grief and they are cathartic.The world needs beauty and roses . An inpiring story to me and a blessing. Roses are therapeutic even when not in flower.The leaves even themselves.They make wonderful dyes of the softest rose gold colour and the colour from them ,like rose flowers themselves,are full of gentleness and beauty.In my pain I collected hundreds of vintage roses.Congratulations to Ngoc.I recommend the path of peace and beauty and am sure her book will be a blessing to many as well as her story of finding peace and beauty in great pain and loss. Her story is a story the world nears to hear and see. Thank you.Many blessings always.

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  192. Lynette gage on

    Thank you for sharing this beautiful and touching interview. My grandmother loved sterling roses. It’s one of my fondest memories of how beautiful she looked when receiving them. I live in northern Idaho where roses can be fussy to grow but Ngoe has inspired me to grow these roses so that the stories do not disappear.

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  193. Melinda on

    A lovely, thoughtful video of her story punctuated with gorgeous backgrounds. Her love of roses certainly comes through. I especially liked the shots of the ramblers and climbers.

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  194. Lise-Lotte Loomer on

    I found it really ring true for me….sharing this Beauty is a gift. Thank for this gift.

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  195. Adina Linn on

    Her comment that her photography or “art” is to show beauty as you have not seen. That will linger for a while.

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  196. Janet Kramka on

    Very poignant story. I love that Ngoc says that flowers tell stories and there is culture attached to them. What a lovely perspective.

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  197. Kathy on

    “To show the tenderness, rather than the violence of the world” Also the way she captured that sweet goldfinch perched in the pink roses. I paused the video to get a closer look :)

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  198. Jeannie Cydrus on

    One thing that impacted me the most was how she was impacted by her parents and how photographing the roses she carried her father with her. My father also passed away being on hospice and just reminded me of some passions we have are from things we learned of them.

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  199. Rona Book on

    What a lovely, graceful film. Ngoc Minh Ngo’s photos are stunning and sublime. The photograph of her parents in their later years showed so much of their character and where Ngoc received her kindness, grace and quiet love of beauty. Thank you for this beautiful film of Ngoc’s story.

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  200. Victoria Isham on

    What a beautiful and emotional story. Flowers can be so healing for people. They bring joy, happiness, rememberance and love for so many. Thank you for sharing, we all need a little magic!

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  201. Anna Brinkmann on

    “I carry him with me,” she said near the end of the video, about her father. Those words went right through me. My mother passed 2 years ago, and she was an avid gardener. I find that, especially in spring, I carry her with me. Ngoc’s reflection on roses and her father – his life and his death – is so powerful precisely because the living, natural world brings us directly in touch with our mortality, and the glorious, beautiful, confusing and fleeting life we have right now. Roses are ancient, combined with the sweetness of a grandmother. The scent conjures my grandmother, my mother, my family, and also civilizations that have come and gone. What could be more enduring, even as it lives for just a few months.

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  202. Sarah on

    It’s so lovely to “meet” Ngoc. I’ve been a fan since “Bringing Nature Home” and frequently check to see if she has new titles coming. What a beautiful tribute to her father this interview is. The burning of their family photos impacted me the most. Photos equal memories. This was indeed a huge loss.

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  203. Sarah Anderson on

    Ngoc beautifully talks about her art as showing “the tenderness instead of the violence in the world.” What a beautiful approach that can be applied to any art or any task-even growing cut flowers.

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  204. Lauren Walker-Stevens on

    You can feel the love for her father deep within and the beauty she sees through his eyes still. Such a calming and beautiful life story, thank you so much for sharing with the world. XO

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  205. Nancy on

    “ When you learn about something, you learn to appreciate it”. ❤️

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  206. Renee Zarate on

    Such a sweet nostalgic story, thanks for sharing it with us.

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  207. Julie Hardcastle on

    I love Ngoc’s connection to her father through roses. My mother always grew petunias and marigolds in our planting beds around our home or in containers on her patio later in life. Now I grow them also to honor her and remember her Spirit and influence on my life. As an East German refugee, tending her garden was a way to find peace and forget her early childhood experiences. I think many of us here have experienced the healing that working with plants and soil can bring so Ngoc’s expression of finding beauty among a world of increasing violence is something we all should seek for and be grateful for.

    I’m very excited to see her book. Thank you for this inspiring interview and reminding us of the beautiful people and vistas in our world.

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  208. Tanja on

    Beauty is medicine. What an amazing story and gardens.

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  209. Bethany on

    I just really resonated with how beauty in our world can provide joy and healing. It encouraged me to continue to try to “make things pretty”, as I say, in our home, and in our garden. Hopefully with the goal of sharing that beauty and peace of my home and gardens with others.

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  210. Dallas on

    I have loved her work for years and love it that much more today. Such a beautiful person. So many touching things she shared in this video…”To show the tenderness instead of the violence in the world.”

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  211. Marianne Reinhold on

    I related to her observations about how learning about something and deepening one’s understanding of it increases the appreciation of the beauty of it. It was a lovely film that provided important context for her art, how she came to be the person she is and her immense talent.

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  212. Linda on

    Ngoc’s touching interview speaks to me of generations. Her work is a way to honor the past and connect with her father longer. Her book, Roses in the Garden is a way to preserve stories about roses for future generations. She searches for deeper knowledge, connection and beauty as she photographs her subject. Inspiring quote by Ocean Vuong. It is beauty that softens the harsh edges of the world.

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  213. Karen Matthews on

    The photos are beautiful but I really enjoyed hearing all the story! Thanks to both of you for sharing!
    Karen Matthews

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  214. Yvie Hu on

    Ngoc, what stunning work and beautiful heart behind it. It touched and resonated with me when you said that knowing about something more gives you a greater appreciation. I was reminded of how easy it is to judge things or even people at face value but how rich and meaningful the life and stories behind the person or object is when you examine it to know it.

    Two years ago, as a freshman in high school, I did a research project on the way flowers interact with your memory. They are so much more than ‘just’ a flower. I love how you use your writing and camera to capture the stories of flowers. So beautiful and I hope many people will come to see the true beauty that flowers hold and the stories they are tied to.

    Congratulations on such an exciting project!!

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  215. Katie on

    This was beautiful! I loved her thoughts on tenderness and beauty and how we need to be reminded of that in a difficult world.

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  216. Lisa on

    Her words were moving but the photographs really tell the story! Thank you for sharing.

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  217. Alexandra on

    I first learned about Ngoc Minh Ngo on Instagram and I fell in love with her photography, especially the photos she took in Oaxaca. I’m not very active on social media anymore, so I was pleasantly surprised to see her name pop up in your newsletter and I’m excited to learn more about her new book. I was moved by her resiliency, self-expression, and appreciation for a deeper understanding of what she does. I was also greatly inspired by her mission to keep the candle burning for future generations.

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  218. Roz Theesfeld on

    The part of the story that touched me most was how the roses became a source of healing for Ngoc, a way to carry her father’s presence with her. “He never would have imagined all these places, and I carry him in that way.” Those words resonated so deeply—what a beautiful sentiment, to feel the presence of a loved one through the beauty that surrounds us.

    It awakened something within me, a realization of how breathtaking this world truly is, how every petal, every fragrance, every bloom is a quiet reminder of the wonder we must not overlook. I don’t want to miss any of it. As Ngoc so perfectly said, “I’m always looking for the magic in flowers, that magic is always there.” And indeed, it is.

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  219. Justine Turatti on

    CARING.
    Caring about nature, people, legacy, beauty.
    Caring is a dying art in an instantly gratifying world.
    Caring takes time, patience, seasons.
    Simply CARING.

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  220. Rene Edwards on

    I enjoyed so much her authentic tender spirit in your interview. It was felt in all of her words of family, and her wisdom to carry their love and knowledge through her talents, and a legacy of the printed page with unforgettable photographs! Thank you.

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  221. Julie Proctor on

    Ngoc spoke of how the knowing and memories of her father and their life changed her perspective and her appreciation of flowers. Thru photography she shares this with us.

    Her story led me to realize that as a result of my years of study (and thank you to Floret and her course) I also have a new perspective. New enthusiasm and energy to grow.

    In addition to her beautiful photography I also saws a beautiful woman wearing jeans patched at the knees. Ngoc spends time on the ground. The perfect vantage point to gain a perspective missed by most.

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  222. Denise W. on

    This entire film is so impactful, but perhaps what struck me the most: two things:
    To preserve things and not let connections and people disappear.
    And to me that means to keep their special meaning alive with deep appreciation. To hold close enriching memories, connections, and the preciousness and beauty of life, remembering the goodness we’ve had and the goodness all around us.
    And also what impacted me — her tenderness. That she’s sharing and encouraging tenderness, appreciation, understanding, and peace. Her heart, her words and actions are so inspiring.
    What’s so very impactful is that she took incredible loss and hardship and transformed that into beautiful heartfelt images and inspiring words, messages that are so meaningful and valuable to share with the masses.
    Thank you, Erin, for sharing such a beautiful film. Thank you Ngoc Minh Ngo for your uplifting work. May peace, tenderness, and beauty be with you always.

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  223. Nancy Sheeley on

    Thank you for the thoughtful interview. It made me think about my parents and wonder how they influenced my love of gardening and flowers. It was a lovely reminder that life is beautiful.

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  224. Jen on

    Thank you for telling yet another wonderful story to the world! I really liked how she put it when she said ‘knowledge of things will always reward you with a deeper appreciation of them.’

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  225. Kelli Jayn Nichols on

    I’d already been thinking about my mother this morning, so I was most deeply touched by Ngoc’s description of her parents and how they taught her to care. And now she passes that legacy of caring on through her art, and we all can share in it. What a beautiful project she has, to show the “tenderness “ of the world, as she describes it. This is a lovely film, itself embracing that ethic of care. Thank you!

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  226. Robin Parsons on

    I was so happy to see this video this morning. What a beautiful, inspiring story. What I loved most is that you can almost see her soul. After all she has been through, she seems so peaceful, and she has clearly found her purpose.

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  227. Emily Lutz on

    This was so worth the time! I love stories like this that evoke such emotion that can connect us all and remind us of finding the tenderness in the world. I loved that reminder! I also was touched by how she carried her dad with her and processed her grief through roses. What a sweet way to do that!

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  228. Jennifer Sander on

    So touching to hear her speak about her father and his last days. Our father was not a gardener, he was a musician. In the same way that she draws comfort and family memories from the roses, my family can hear our father in the sound of a fine piano.

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  229. Heather on

    The power of photography and flowers in healing is so inspiring!

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  230. Karen Zischke on

    So beautiful and powerful!Having just lost my brother, I found her story of healing her grief through the beauty of roses very instructive. Thank you for bringing her work to me, such an inspiration

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  231. Catherine on

    The pictures are beautiful, they bring tears of joy. What I see is our creator God. Absolutely beautiful.
    Thank you Ngoc Minh Ngo

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  232. Kristi McLafferty on

    “I carry him with me, in that way.”
    Ngoc, so beautiful. Thank you for sharing this poignant reflection of your grief and the deep love you hold so close and so dear for your father.

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  233. Carrie Turansky on

    What a beautiful film. I watched it with tears in my eyes. I loved her comment about beauty being medicine for the soul and helping us through times of grief. Her love for her father was also very touching. Thank you for sharing her thoughts and her book. She is a beautiful soul who is giving a gift to us all.

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  234. Stephanie P on

    I love how she describes a flower as it relates to her love for her father. Grief, as she says, becomes less sharp over time. Ironic how roses have the most beautiful blossoms yet sharp thorny stems. Gardening is spiritual in many ways. It can help us feel closer to those we have lost, as Ngoc has experienced. This video helps me remember that gardening is more than growing a garden, it is a process of beauty and reminders of life.

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  235. Brenda Harvey on

    Beautiful story of family and the powerful magic of flowers. 🌺

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  236. Molly Birenbaum on

    Ngoc is as lovely as the roses she photographs. What a beautiful and touching tribute to her father. Thank you for providing these moments of beauty and joy.

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  237. Eileen on

    Thank you for this! Such a thoughtful and touching story and a beautiful work capturing it. Her reasons for doing what she does is more like a devotion than work. We are the ones blessed by her sharing what she does.
    Her way of accepting that there are wounds but there is healing available in beauty was meaningful to me. As she quoted, “Beauty-it is medicine for the wound”. She finds her beauty in the flowers and gardens. A shared love and yes, medicine.

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  238. Kasha Newcomb on

    After the death of my son, I too found healing in the garden and in nature. Having your hands in the soil grounded me ,made me feel safe when everything around me was so out of my control. Bookclub friends gifted me a yellow rose that still blooms today, those first blooms of the summer remind me of all the beauty in the world. What a heartwarming story 💕

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  239. Denise Audy on

    Hearing Ngoc talk about how roses connect her to her dad, touched my heart because I have the same connection to my Mom. Every time I see their beauty or smell the sweet scent of roses, I can feel her presence, and the pain of grief has given way to the joy of fond memories.

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  240. Shelby on

    It has been a hard year, and in my own garden I found such healing. Her comment that her work is an effort “to show the tenderness instead of the violence of the world” brought me to tears. That is what growing flowers was for me this year. It was an act of defiance, that there will still be beauty in my life despite all the evidence showing me the opposite. She said it so eloquently. Thank you for sharing this interview.

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  241. Denise Audy on

    Hearing Ngoe talk about how roses connect her to her dad, touched my heart because I have the same connection to my Mom. Every time I see their beauty or smell the sweet scent of roses, I can feel her presence, and the pain of grief has given way to the joy of fond memories.

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  242. Susan Kelly on

    My favorite thing to do in order to gather myself when my surroundings seem chaotic is to look at pictures. I will gather different boxes of beloved family pictures to remind me of love that lasts forever even when bodies no longer function or even breathe here on earth. Losing family photographs and photos of home would be devastating and I’m sorry that yours had to be destroyed. With their destruction however, I can see that you have flourished and that was your parents’ goal. Thank you for your vision of tenderness.

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  243. Kelly O’Connor on

    This was a wonderful snapshot into the life of one who has chosen to capture and highlight beauty. Thank you! I am looking forward to seeing her book in the near future. I love her perspective on looking to find beauty in the middle of this harsh world.

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  244. Amy Spence on

    ROSES. ROSES. ROSES!!!!
    My grandmother’s favorite flower was the rose. She passed away 7 years ago but I have a small rose garden dedicated to her.
    Ngoc’s memory and love for her father resounds with me and my love for my grandma! She was the BEST!

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  245. Jackie on

    Ngoc has memories of a time in history most of us will never comprehend. But she also had memories and feelings for loved ones gone that I can understand and relate to. Beautifully done.

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  246. Stacie Seuberling on

    Her photos allow us to see through her eyes, and what beauty she shares with us! Reminding us that in the midst of grief and horror nature cures.
    Thank you for sharing your life and art with us.

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  247. Maria Marlene da Costa Araujo on

    I’m not a US resident but would like to share that I felt very much connected with Ngoc because I lost an Aunt recently and she was my father favorite sister who loved flowers and every time my father visited her she gave him a rose, the most fragrant rose she would have in her garden. After she passed away, I asked my cousin to give me the “seed” so I could plant some in my garden. They have grown and every time they bloom it reminds my Aunt. As Ngoc said, when we keep them growing, its a way of keeping their stories and people alive and close to us.

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  248. Jeanie Roscher on

    I especially love how she expressed that flowers “show the tenderness” instead of the violence in the world. Amidst so much darkness and suffering, flowers provide beauty and solace. I was immediately reminded of Alla Olkhovska, gardening in a war zone, and the beauty she has created despite unfathomable conditions. Thank you Erin for introducing me to these fabulously gifted and generous women.

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  249. Cristina on

    I loved how Ngoc’s love for roses evolved thru grief and memories of her Dad. Grief comes and goes at all different times through our lives. Her pictures are a wonderful tribute to her Dad and family and highlight her talents. Thank you for sharing.

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  250. Kari Parks on

    I appreciate how Erin graciously gives space for others to tell others stories. Storytelling is a lost art and this story is one rung on the trellis of life. Thank you Ngoc for your vulnerability. You and your book are beautiful. Keep Flourishing!

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  251. Debbie Dowling on

    I try to help individuals experiencing grief in several ways. Ngoc’s comments about grief were heart warming for me. The beauty flowers bring do help to ease the pain of grief is real.
    Thank you for sharing this his beautiful tribute to roses. The photos and video were exquisite.

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  252. Leslie Hermoso on

    Ngoc, remembering the painful loss of her family’s photos, consciously decided to honor her Father’s memory by capturing and sharing with the world the beauty of roses in her new book. Thank you for sharing this beautiful story and heartfelt, creative soul with us!

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  253. Kathleen Matson Blurock on

    This film, as all your other films gratify my soul, help me to remember the garden. I do not have one at present, and long for the days in Scotland when I had a walled garden of my own. So your films keep the beauty alive and inspire when I cannot walk out into the actual place and look into the heart of my roses. Thank you so much NGOC, ERIN and CHRIS and everyone at FLORET for your continued work in bring forward the garden’s BEAUTY.

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  254. Raychel Hatch on

    I loved this interview so much. My favorite part was when she said “Beauty is Medicine”. I know that is definitely true in my life.

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  255. Suzy Jennings on

    I found myself very emotional listening to this piece. Having lost my own father in the last year I could relate to her grief intently. I feel my father in nature and it amazes me on the comfort it brings.

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  256. Nicolette Giannantonio on

    I was immediately pulled into the interview when Ngoc shares her idea of knowledge being a catapult for seeing things differently and with care. I think that is very true and inspires me to learn more. I was also very touched when Ngoc recognizes there was probably a subconscious connection to the loss she experienced in life and the wanting to preserve through photography. She appears so kind and gentle through this interview- what a beautiful soul!

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  257. Sheila Self on

    I love roses and have several in my yard! What an inspiring story and it makes me think how wonderful it is to live in America. We are so blessed and can appreciate such beauty! I am so thankful that people like her can share all this beauty!

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  258. Kathleen Jackson on

    Ngoc speaks softly volumes, then grants us the gift of permission.

    This spellbinding film shows us that amid harsh reality we can cultivate our roots and allow ourselves to enjoy nature’s beauty and its seasons. Our grief needn’t be forgotten, denied, or consume us.

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  259. Polly Smith on

    I love how she has transformed her grief of losing her father to carrying him with her as she observes and photographs roses. This world needs kindness.

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  260. Marcella Maduro on

    It was very emotional for me to watch this as I share a similar story with my father. Her view on how roses and flowers overall should be shared with all… in a world full of conflict it is important to see peace and beauty in it. Thank you for this.

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  261. Sarah Harkness on

    This was a gorgeous interview. As someone who felt drawn to growing roses a few years ago and is still very much in the early learning stages of this pursuit, I felt most affected to the ways that flowers (roses especially!) call to people across cultures. They give such beauty, meaning, connection, and, yes, medicine.

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  262. Meredith Pike-Baky on

    What a beautiful film! Many favorite ideas, but the one I want to remember is “looking at something deeply helps us appreciate it more.” Thank you for this.

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  263. Joanne Dubrow on

    What a beautiful and heart felt interview with Ngoc, reminding us to embrace and notice the beauty in nature especially when times are hard. There is something efflorescence about roses that can make one pause and reflect on our own lives and find ways to bring that beauty forward. I do love roses in all their forms. Thank you for sharing such personal memories about your family with us.

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  264. MARCIA HINKLEMANN on

    I loved the fact that the connection to the roses began with her father. Not a smell, color or petal formation, just her father. A true love and appreciation for a beautiful flower!

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  265. Renee on

    Expressing art as a process of mediation, taking something wordly processing through you to show something maybe others haven’t seen. To show tenderness of the violence of the world.

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  266. Pamela Embick on

    This is such an intimate look at the author’s experience with roses. Her photos and descriptions allow the reader to share in the emotions the roses evoke in her. Thank you for inviting me into this beautiful space.

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  267. Liz Winslow on

    “Beauty is medicine” and “I want to show the tenderness of the world instead of violence”.

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  268. Amy D. on

    thank you for this! this is exactly what my heart needed this morning. sitting here in tears with its tenderness, softness & stunning beauty. watching this is the best ten minutes you can do for yourself to counterbalance literally *everything* else coming at you all day long.

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  269. Theresa Pham - Life In Rose Farm on

    As a refugee whose father also served as a Captain for the south Vietnamese Air Force, I can wholeheartedly relate to Ngoc and her family having to emigrate after the fall of Saigon. I was 8 when we fled Vietnam – just young enough to start fresh but old enough to remember the struggles and pains my parents had to endured. Naturally, our new life in America represented the hopes and dreams that was lost many years ago. Today I make the most of that dream by forging my own path of peace, beauty and joy, coincidentally also in roses! Both my parents spent every little leisure time they had tending to their garden, which mostly comprised of tropical fruits and Vietnamese veggies and herbs, all of which reminds them of home. I supposed their green thumbs rubbed off on me and I fell in love with roses. The rose is a symbol of everlasting beauty, hope, and peace. It was also something my parent thought was a luxury and never ventured to grow. So I did – on a 27 acre farm in the South with over 6000 roses that I singlehanded planted myself. It’s hot and humid here but our cut garden roses are thriving!

    I came to learn about Ngoc Minh’s work a couple years back and was enamored. I admired her courage to take a career path very uncommon to the Vietnamese tradition, as I have done the same. It would be an honor to win Ngoc Minh’s book. But if I don’t, I’ll be sure to buy a copy!

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  270. Christopher Foss on

    A beautiful film and engaging story. Indeed flowers are a sort of magic. I forget this truth through the long months of winter. And I’m somehow always surprised (and delighted) to rediscover it every time spring unfolds.
    Thank you for sharing such a healing story.

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  271. Kelly Hoffman on

    What a sweet and gentle woman. I loved her comment about art being a mediator. Speaks volumes. I am a quilter and love colors and blending of fabrics so I feel what she’s talking about. Thank you for introducing me to this amazing artist.

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  272. Erin Dunn on

    Ngoc’s peaceful and engaging story of grief and beauty… (how much was left unsaid?)… as exemplified by the tangle and varied loveliness of roses. Thank you, it calms the soul.

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  273. Barb Wenger on

    She grabbed my attention with her first comment, ‘Knowing about things helps you… appreciate them differently.’ That’s both true and a needed reminder in these times of transition. I try not to give up on life long learning in many areas, this helps with my motivation!

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  274. Natasha Meister on

    Ngoc’s life journey is what impacted me the most. Her connection to memories through photography is very moving and inspirational. Her commitment to her family and the human condition of aging beauty is remarkable. Roses have fleeting beauty and magic for her which is how she continues to connect with her dad. Roses are a beautiful medicine.

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  275. Brenda Tharp on

    What a beautiful person. It is hard to narrow my thoughts to just one thing from the interview with Ngoc, but I especially loved the comment about beauty in nature being the medicine for our world. We need that now more than ever. I love the tribute and memories of her father with the book of roses. The loss of their family photos and her need to preserve the species of old roses was very touching. Thank you for sharing this interview with us.

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  276. Karen on

    You can feel her deep connection to her father through her love of Roses. Beautiful photography.

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  277. Ana on

    Listening to Ngoc’s story made me cry. My father also loved gardening. His dream was to be a full time gardener and farmer after he retires from working as a civil engineer for over 40 years. But a few years before that, he suffered a stroke that left the right side of his body paralyzed. He never got to fulfill his dream but he surrounded his room with lots of plants while living in a retirement home. He made a mini garden on his big window sill. He passed away in January 2022. Ngoc’s father reminded me so much of my father….caring and gentle.

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  278. Claire on

    I loved this interview so much! Beauty is a medicine for grief and the harshness of this world (for my own grief as well). Thank you so much for sharing Ngoc’s story!

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  279. Jenny Shircliff on

    I was moved by how Ngoc connected her love of nature, particularly roses, to the poignant memories of her father – how roses kept him with her in her heart.
    Also, she pointedly reminds us all of the beauty of the world around us, maybe at a time when we need it most.

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  280. Kathie on

    Brings back memories of how my grandmothers and great-grandmothers introduced me to rose gardening and the art of baking. Having trained as a professional photographer, I always was attracted to flower photography however having a family disrupted that career but not my love of roses. Having recently retired and started a cut flower garden, this video & floret gardens series has inspired me and confirmed the last chapter in my life will be about what I love most. Growing heirloom roses and preserving history. Thank you for the inspiration!

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  281. Michelle Ricci-Koch on

    Her whole story is moving. I am so happy for Ngoc to find happiness in the magic of the flowers. As a photographer myself I truly believe in her statement “ As a photographer you take something in the world and process it through yourself, it’s a lot of yourself in it and it’s what makes that work different and unique.” Because of her experiences I love that she has chosen beauty to be seen instead of violence. Beautiful! Thank you for sharing her story.

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  282. Cindy Freihofer on

    Losing the photographs impacted me the most. I have a big collection of photos of loved ones that I cannot imagine losing. Also roses remind me so much of my grandmother, she was a wonderful gardener.

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  283. Elaine Smith on

    Speaking about knowing more about something helps you appreciate and enjoy it more was inspiring. Inspires me to learn more about the things that interest me. Her speaking about roses made me think of family and friends who have nurtured and enjoyed roses throughout my life. Her love of family, culture and her father was so poignant. You can hear the love in her voice and the sorrow of his loss. Her grief is felt in her words. She tells her story from her heart. Beautiful.

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  284. Christal on

    I always find the personal stories of people’s life work interesting. What led them to where they are today? What inspires them? Clearly Ngoc’s inspiration and motivation comes from her father and it brought a smile to my face that she now thinks about him marveling at all the roses she photographs. She has picked up where he left off demonstrating the beauty in the circle of life.

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  285. Frances on

    What a wonderful film, thank you very much for making and sharing it with us. The way in which Ngoc spoke of her relationship of roses interwoven with her Father reflects one of the many attributes of flowers. They are more than what they appear to be – flowers reach deep inside to the often untouchable places of our hearts, bringing healing and joy. Having a look inside another’s love of flowers evoked a deep dive into my own thoughts and feelings toward these remarkable gifts left on the Earth by our magnificent Creator.

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  286. Leaha Ziegler on

    I can relate to her perspective that she creates her art out of how she is feeling and seeing the world at the moment. When I create paper flowers I am also creating out of this same sense of being. I love her perspective that flowers help us see the life and beauty in our world despite the violence and sorrows that are also true.

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  287. Ruth Adler on

    I loved her very last statement in this short film. Thank you for sharing this film. Warmest congratulations for your presence in the new book about roses. So very beautiful and so very special!

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  288. Sharon McEnerney on

    My grandmother loved gardening
    My mother loved roses
    My daughter is both
    I cherish them all

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  289. Jocelyn Grover on

    With her photography, she is always looking for the magic in the flowers.

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  290. Susan O'Halloran on

    Her photos capture the beauty and magic that roses give to us. Her words are full of with such tenderness and love. It touched a deep part of my soul.

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  291. Dianne C. on

    “For me, to show the tenderness instead of the violence in the world.” Yes. We need more of this.

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  292. Annette Volbers on

    What a beautiful story of remembering her father as she finds the peace in a garden.

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  293. Amy M on

    For me that was 10 minutes of beautiful peace. I could smell the roses in my mind. I felt my breathing slow down and a sence of calm surrounded me. Thank you for sharing.

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  294. Kim Gunter on

    When she would take the roses home in a bucket on the subway in New York to photograph them. Such a lovely video!

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  295. Natalie on

    Ngoc’s words and photography are very moving and inspiring. A beautifully captured slice of life that reminds us even in our painful grief we can find the beauty and keep our loved ones with us.

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  296. Marilyn Robinson on

    Ngoc’s integration of grief and beauty is helpful and calming. She inspires me with her ability to take great loss and transform it into something so beautiful. Her father’s memory lives on through her storytelling.

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  297. Alyssa Vickerman on

    Ngoc is such a beautiful person, you can tell she’s made up of so much good. It was a gorgeous interview and I learned so much about her in a short time. The part that really got me was when she said, “to show tenderness instead of violence in the world.” She definitely is accomplishing that!

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  298. Darlene MacDonald on

    “finding “tenderness” in opposition to violence in the world”; says it all Ngoc Minh Ngo !
    Flowers heal!
    Thank you for sharing beauty & reminding us to look for beauty in todays world!

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  299. Theresa Merkling on

    Such a beautiful video and tribute to her Dad. My heart breaks about the loss of her family photos. Her photography is amazing and such a refreshing look at life.

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  300. Shelly Ellison on

    I love the way she describes her work as “showing the tenderness of the world.” The photography is stunning as well as the cinematography of this piece!

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  301. Jen on

    Oh what a sweet soul. Ngoc has such a tender heart – a gift from her parents. Such a blessing.
    I love the connections she shares about flowers and culture and people. Some things will connect peoples hearts no matter what the circumstance is this crazy world.
    Gardens and flowers are definitely upon the top for me. The beauty in the world is amazing. Thank you for capturing bits and pieces then documenting it forever.

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  302. Katie on

    When she talked about her dad and flowers reminded me of how I feel about my grandfather and flowers. It was get touching

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  303. Cheryl Welch on

    It seems her photography and the love of roses saved her and that is what struck me because I feel that way about my roses and garden, I feel deeply connected. I grew up in a home where I was pretty much on my on and as early as 7 I remember the garden and everything in it. I especially remember New Dawn Rose and it’s scent even though I did not know it’s name at the time so everywhere I move I have planted one, it takes me back to my childhood where I found peace and solitude in the garden. I am so drawn to the outdoors and gardening and I take endless photographs. I can’t wait to get her book so on those blustery days I can still feel connected to the roses. Antique roses are my favorite because of the amazing history and their scent is unmatched. I always tell people when they see my garden that gardening is therapy and obviously I need allot of therapy lol. I believe my garden has saved me in so many ways and made me an optomistic calm person. I get the impression her photography and the love of the garden has saved her too.

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  304. Josy Johnson on

    Ngoc’s photography is so inspiring, it fills me with hope and serves as a reminder that the world is full of people making and seeking beauty.

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  305. Terri McBride on

    What a beautiful video. I didn’t think I could single out any one thing as it was exquisite and so calming. When she talked about losing her father and how she found peace through roses to keep her father close to her really touched my heart. My father is terminally ill and it has been a process to come to terms with that. Her words and beautiful photography helped me realize your people stay with you in the things you learned from them, the times you’ve shared together and when you come across something you both enjoyed it will bring you comfort.

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  306. Kathy Houda on

    The singular pink rose framed as Ngoc began to speak of her father’s passing is so relatable for me. Having lost a very dear friend, another rosarian, I am growing her favorite, “DeLish”, as the fragrance and the spectacular flowers we shared when they bloomed keeps her memory ever present. Thank you for these gifts, Erin.

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  307. Amy Clements on

    Ngoc’s reminder of capturing the beauty of the world amidst the harshness. Lovely video – thank you

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  308. marianne patrevito on

    A poignant and beautifully done video. “beauty is medicine for the heart.” Thank you Floret for always tending to our wounds with the healing essence of your mission through flowers.

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  309. Linda Fowble on

    What a beautiful video and story about someone who shares the love of nature that should reside in all our hearts. I loved the comment that she shows “tenderness instead of violence” because this is what the world and especially our country needs at the moment. Nature is the only thing that is getting me through these historical days in our democracy. I treasure every bloom on my walks every day and paint them when I return just for me to find calm and to rest in their beauty. I can’t wait to see Ngoc’s book and to see her wonderful photographs. Thank you Erin for bringing joy to me today through this touching interview. Bravo!

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  310. Ally Whiteneck on

    Such a soft spoken and fascinating woman. I enjoyed seeing the vast garden with the amazing roses. I had no idea old roses were being protected there.

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  311. Angie on

    My family photos were also lost. Some could be replaced but my father’s side of the family are lost forever.

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  312. Diane McElwain on

    Connecting beauty with grief gives grace to the soul She is a sweet person.

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  313. Theresa Cooper on

    Beautiful film. My favorite quote is “Beauty is medecine for the world”.

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  314. Linn Heider on

    Her vision of beauty and choosing that with caring and tenderness over the challenges of the world struck me. Roses are tender they require care and gentleness. I felt such softness in her story. My dad also died in March of 2008. I connected with her love and memory of her father.

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  315. Joann on

    Sitting together with family watching home movies or a serendipitous moment fingering family photos stored haphazardly in a box on a rainy night imprints deeply in our hearts. Ngoc has found the love of roses, photography and nature to be the perfect medium to fill the moment when her family was erased by the burning of all the videos and photos. I feel thankful Ngoc found such a beautiful way to fill that emptiness and that she is sharing it with others. Thank you for this lovely interview Ngoc and Erin which reminds us we can always find beauty even in the darkest of times.

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  316. Donna Starling on

    Beautiful life story, beautiful flowers . I love that she mentioned the “magic of flowers”. I do feel flowers are magical and how they can soothe so many emotions. I love how she’s connected the roses to her father and allow that to carry her through her grief. My father and I shared a love for plants and flowers. And when I work in my garden, my happy place, although he has passed, I feel his presence, I believe through the magic of flowers.

    Thank you for sharing this documentary. It’s so nice to see the background of the book.

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  317. Anne Martin on

    Ngoc’s story and how it gave her a constant in her life to look for the peace, harmony and healing beauty in the world is very inspiring. That message needs to be replayed and relearned in a world that keeps trying to look at diversity and pit it against each other. Her simple outlook when comparing the different histories and beauties of each rose is to only find wonder and appreciation of each rose’s contribution to the complete rose story. That lens is a model for how each citizen of the world needs to look upon each other with appreciation and the unique contributions we have all made to history. Then to take that information with careful loving thoughts in order to simply “do better” as we live in, work in and walk in our inherited world! Her lens is gentle and forgiving… she knows we stand on the shoulders of those who have been there before us. We must stay positive and judge kindly as we walk forward into our more complicated and newer world!

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  318. Marty Richter on

    It never seems to amaze me how nature can bring us to a depth of memory and vibrant human feelings within us that is not often present in our daily lives. Thanks for the inner story of Ngoc that we can all connect with in one way or another.

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  319. Kelly Brown on

    Beautiful story and her work is absolutely amazing. It’s even more beautiful knowing her story and how she carries her father with her in her art. What a tender look into her heart.

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  320. Lisa Frisicano on

    The tenderness that Ngoc expresses when talking about her Dad is heart wrenching and heart warming at the same time. What a beautiful expression of love this book is sure to be.

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  321. Marie Evers on

    I love the heartfelt love she has for her father and through so much tragedy she can find hope and beauty in roses. Roses have so much history, healing and beauty even in such a harsh world. The photos were truly amazing and beautiful.

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  322. Christine Lyon on

    Beautifully done as always! Being so open about her journey is what touched me most. Identifying beauty in the world as healing rang so true with me. I have found it difficult at times to slow down long enough to find it myself. I am thrilled Ngoc has captured some of the beauty at Floret to share with the world and promote healing that we all need!

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  323. Kathy on

    Lovely person, beautiful vision. I had to pause the video to dwell longer with her photos. The world has felt so harsh lately, and Ngoc is right: we mustn’t forget to look for the beauty.

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  324. Karen White on

    She sees that “the magic in the flowers is always there”.

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  325. Molly McDonald on

    I love how Ngoc embraced Roses as a way to keep her father’s memory with her. But in the process of doing so, she discovered unexpected joy, beauty, healing, and inspiration. I love also how she feels her photos are a reflection of how she’s feeling in the moment. Very inspired by her work!

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  326. Rachel Householder on

    Erin, you have such a gift of bringing people’s stories together. I am always amazed and inspired by the beauty of flowers- but most of all the people behind them.
    Ngoc, thank you for finding ways to capture what is finite and make it so that others can see and remember the beauty. I appreciate that you are willing to share something so personal with the world. I can’t wait to read your book.

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  327. Elvira Piedra on

    Ngoc Minh Ngo is such a beautiful and tender artist. I was very moved by her story and how she spoke of the beginning of the work, when the grief is sharp, and then opening to the beautiful experience of doing the work. It felt like the medicine of the rose working through her. I loved feeling like I was in the garden with her, surrounded by petals and the songs of birds. Thank you for making this film.

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  328. Karen on

    Roses are my favorite flower and I have many in my garden. I felt a bond with Ngoc as I attended college in the 70’s and our school welcomed a number of Vietnamese refugees and my roommate was a young woman. She was so frightened she would creep in our room so she would not have to speak to me. I became aware of the hardship of leaving their country and not speaking our language and being cut off from the rest of their family. I felt the sadness in this video and I think it is incredible that Ngoc grew to be able to care!

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  329. Justin on

    I really enjoyed this interview. The way in which Ngoc experiences a connection with her father’s memory through roses resonated with me. I am an amateur rosarian myself and I often imagine that my love of roses will be a part of the way in which my children remember me. At the same time, I often think of my Oma (grandma) while in the garden because we shared a love for the beauty of flowers. I look forward to Ngoc’s new book!

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  330. Valerie Flores on

    It was her gentleness and beauty I see in her that she sees in the roses. Her love and dedication to her father in this book. I felt a connection to her.

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  331. Tina Wilson on

    What a beautiful way to pay tribute to her father. I have recently become interested in flower farming. My granddaughters’s nickname is sweet pea. I am growing those. My mother had roses. I received one when she passed. I ordered two heirloom roses to start my rose garden to pay tribute to my mother. I bought her several while she was gardening. I miss her so much and I need a way to “connect” with her.

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  332. Stacy Stultz on

    What a beautiful video, both visually and in the message it conveys. Ngoc embodies the spirit we are here to experience: healing from the past and exploring the depths of our soulwork through finding work that amplifies our purpose. She has tenderly taken her pain and transformed it into a lasting tribute to her dear father. You could feel her emotions building, finally spilling over through tears. Ngoc is a deep and soulful person, leaving her family’s legacy in photos that will last beyond her years. They may have lost images from the past, but she has found their faces, again, in the roses. I will revisit this little film many times.

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  333. Kate on

    What Ngoc said about always trying to find the magic in the flowers really shows in her images. Her photographs have an ethereal quality, and as soon as she said the word magic, I thought that’s exactly how she makes the roses look. I also appreciate how photographing roses makes her feel closer to her father. So many of us who are drawn to gardening and nature feel the pull because of a connection to a loved one. Ngoc’s photos convey a true sense of peace, which I think makes sense given what she said about the stage of grief she is currently experiencing. Pain can create something beautiful, and she’s captured the essence of the rose with true reverence and tenderness.

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  334. Connie on

    It was a bitter sweet message. Her love for roses came from the memories of her father. Flowers are beautiful and healing.

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  335. Mary Dorcey on

    Her story made me cry. The love of her father is so touching. That she has turned her loss into such a beautiful tribute is inspiring!

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  336. Jeanne Rose on

    What a beautiful tribute you have created for this talented photographer. I love that her desire to pay tribute to her father through roses has collided with your journey to save so many of those heirloom roses. I lost my dad 18 years ago, but not a day goes by that something doesn’t trigger a fond memory of him or a feeling that he just might be keeping watch over me. Anyone who has lost their father can agree that the grief is always there, but as Ngoc puts it, it isn’t as sharp. Thank you to Ngoc for sharing her talents through her lens and thank you to the entire floret family for sharing her journey.

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  337. Kim Mowers on

    Turning grief into a sense of wonder gives one hope and healing. Lovely lady, interview and capturing photography.

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  338. Teri Taylor on

    Her peaceful speech and countenance is so touching and refreshing. Beautiful pictures! Love the sounds of the birds.

    So relaxing…

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  339. Lisa Shute on

    Ngoc inspires me to follow my passion for returning to the garden to find my peace. I am an avid novice photographer and this season I will hopefully be able to capture pictures of my own glorious flowers as I have begun many seeds this year purchased from Floret and others to begin growing on a grander scale.

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  340. Kelly Field on

    She is such a tender spirit! Thank you for these beautiful videos. They are medicine for the soul. 🍃

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  341. Susan Baughman on

    Besides the beauty of the roses, her love for her father resonated with me. She is definitely an artist with her camera. Beautiful video.

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  342. Jane Glick on

    So wonderful that Ngoc and her father’s story lives on. I love that she “rose” above the tragedy to be kind and thoughtful and share the beauty in the world through her work. Thank you for sharing such an inspiring story.

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  343. Maddy on

    If eyes are the window to the soul then photography is the window to our thoughts.

    She captured her thoughts beautifully in this interview. I was touched by her story. Thank you for sharing her life work with us Erin. It was such a blessing.

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  344. Mily on

    Thank you for this amazing interview! I enjoyed every second of it. We need more people like Ngoc in our lives.

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  345. Christine B. on

    Thank you Ngoc for your beautiful and inspiring work. I was touched by what you said, “…Showing people something they have not seen before.” I am a hobby photographer and picked up a camera to “capture the things that people walk past every day and do not see.” I have not really picked up my camera since Covid. But seeing the reverence in your photographs has inspired me to pull out my cameras again. Thank you. In the event I am not a lucky winner of your book, I will purchase a copy. Blessings to you. Your father is smiling from heaven. – Christine B.

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  346. Ellie on

    Thank you for sharing this. It reminded me that I was influenced by my father’s gentle demeanor and how I too ‘carry him with me’. I love roses especially pink ones as they were the first flowers I remember from my childhood backyard in NJ.

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  347. Mary Haven on

    As an immigrant myself, I am touched by parents’ commitment for a better life for children, and the impact that this move has on families for generations. I am also touched by her tender sense of beauty. We need more of this in this harsh world…..Thank you for this film. Beautiful!

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  348. Lisa Brady on

    “Beauty is medicine for the world” I love her gentle soul and that she looks for and photographs that beauty. My 90 year old mother in law loved and grew roses and shared that with the world. Which gave me a new love of roses and flowers. I will be getting a copy of this book for each of us. Thank you for sharing her story.

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  349. Elizabeth Poland on

    I lost my father, an avid gardener and lover of flowers, a few months ago. I, too, carry a bit of my father with me as I garden, knowing that he would be comforted by the beauty of each bloom around us in these troubling times.

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  350. Polly Youngren on

    Magic and memory in flowers…
    I especially was touched by her comment about how she learned to care from her parents and how she uses her photography to show tenderness vs violence of the world…
    Magic and memory in flowers…

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  351. Stephanie on

    Tenderness as a response to violence is remarkable. Thank you for introducing me to this amazing human! I can’t wait to jump into her collection of work and see the film.

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  352. Ginny on

    Beauty created by a guiding hand is a work of art.

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  353. Linda S. on

    I loved the video and how flowers can be a part of history. Ngoc’s beautiful photos and story have inspired me and I want to try to grow roses. We just built a rather rustic greenhouse that I hope will help me become a better gardener. Thank you for sharing Ngoc’s story.

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  354. Kristine Kulish on

    I love how she finds her Father in the roses. I relate with her so much. Finding Peace and Beauty in flowers and nature.

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  355. Kelly Graye on

    I’ve been following her work for years, such an exquisite eye, excited to see how she captures roses in a book. The love for her father is evident in her photos, so very touched learn it’s how she keeps him near her, the garden can be healing. Just beautiful!

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  356. Cheryl Ann on

    My late husband was in the Vietnam War, and I can’t tell you how much he would have been touched by Ngoc’s story and her calm perseverance to present the beauty of this world. The day he had his stroke, he was out mowing the lawns I usually care for. He was doing this because I had received my rose orders and he knew I’d be much too busy with the rose garden to mow. The kindness of people who love flowers will always shine through, just as her father’s did.

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  357. Linda on

    I could listen to her sweet voice for hours. I was sad for having to burn everything before leaving. All old memories.

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  358. Kim Wright on

    Well you had me at hello on this one! Ngoc’s very first sentence, “Knowing about things always helps you to see them differently. Also, you learn to appreciate them differently.” So very true of things as well as people who are different from ourselves. In a country so divided, I can’t help but think how healing this one line could be if only we would live learning and curious. Thanks Erin for this beautiful interview!

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  359. Janice on

    Thank you for the opportunity to hear the artist’s voice as well as her “work”. Her reverence for her father and the world are crystalline. The geese flying through the mist could play on an endless loop and the landscape shots draw one into a dreamscape

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  360. Aubry Parker on

    Her realization that any art is a process of putting your view and literally transforming something with a little bit of you into it. This is so inspiring! The connection of art and flowers is so strong for me.

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  361. Iris on

    I am deeply moved by Ngoc’s resilience and her passion and love of roses, and the way she speaks so beautifully about her father. Her photographs are stunning and they make me think of how I can add beauty to my own backyard space.

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  362. Susan MacDonald on

    I am grieving right now for a loved one so I watched with tears in my eyes. It gave me comfort to know that she can think of her father with happiness. The beauty of the flowers help us carry on the love to the next generation.

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  363. Leslie Workman on

    I loved her description of art as taking the world and processing it through yourself- that’s what makes it different. What a sweet, gentle woman! We could use more like her and she’s someone I would love spending time with. Stunning film, btw.

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  364. Sylvia Harrison on

    How beautiful! Ngoc’s beautiful spirit shines through in her photographs, words and demeanor. She speaks wisdom and brings beauty, the antidote to violence, with so much grace that she invites you to participate with her in adding beauty to the world. How lovely! Thank you!

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  365. Jenny Gallo on

    What a beautiful video and story! I was especially touched by the part about how she grieved her father by taking photographs of the roses. But really, every single bit of this video is impactful.
    I look forward to seeing the book!

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  366. Sarah Brooks on

    Touching interview – I teared up when the photos of her parents appeared and she is talking about how she learned to care from them.

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  367. Debbie Apple on

    “Knowing about things always helps you see them differently and also you learn to appreciate them differently.” That statement struck me immensely, and it’s not even really about the flowers – is it? We could turn all “violence”, big and small, into “tenderness” if we could all just take a deep breath and stop to LEARN.

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  368. Lisa Clow on

    As I watched the video, I thought about my rose bushes that I got from Story Rose Farm and more from David Austin Roses I added that fall of 2022. I remembered my purpose for getting them, to soften and enjoy. Life as a farmer can get hectic. The roses remind me of what I want, to heal from the violence of life and settle into the softness.

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  369. Judy L Collier on

    Peace and remembrance so beautiful. A loving memory of her father and family captured in her photography. Thank you for sharing!

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  370. Janethe Pena on

    The first thing that resonated with me was the fact that roses bring mean her father’s presence. Roses bring me my grandmother’s presence, she loved roses and gave me a yellow rose plant when I got married. I could not bring that rose bush when I moved to the US but, to this day, every house I have lived in, I planted a yellow rose bush in her memory. Then, Ngoc quoted someone about beauty being medicine, that is so true and I share the same belief! Beauty and tenderness all around!

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  371. Robin Beaudry on

    Beauty to counteract the harshness in the world… thank you!

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  372. Christine Beatty on

    This was such a beautiful interview. Thank you! It truly showed to me not only the beauty and resiliency of the roses but also that of human beings, stories, and perseverance ❤️❤️. Such a touching and personal story that really tugs at the heart. Her photography is absolutely stunning and memory invoking 🥰

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  373. Emily on

    Ngoc’s definition of photography as “a process of mediation” is the way I have always felt about the medium but have never been able to articulate. “You take something in the world and you process it through yourself. So, it’s a lot of yourself in it and it’s what makes that work different and unique.” Thanks for sharing with us your tenderness.

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  374. Linda on

    This is a beautiful interview, and her photography is stunning. As a creative, I can relate to her statement about how so much of her work is about how she feels when doing it. This is true for me as well.

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  375. Dale Schafer on

    Thank you for this video. I cannot imagine losing all of my photos, they mean a lot to me. Then moving to a new country and starting over again. What brought me to tears was talking about her father and his passing. As many of us have probably had, family and friends pass and you will always carry then with you. I retired this year and the one thing that I will think of the most is my Grandmother, who in her 80s would crawl around on the ground tending to her flowers, picking the weeds out and enjoying the beauty. This year especially, I will be thinking and morning our 18 year hold cat, my baby, Isis. She was my little helper in the garden. It was her time to go in December. It is time to look for that magic in the flowers, gardens and the world around me.

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  376. Sheila Thornton on

    It’s so good to have others out there to remind us of the beauty in the world. I enjoyed hearing her story. I did not know of her until today. I’ll be checking out her other books also. Thank you.

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  377. Linda on

    Particularly moved by her saying the world can be harsh and violent but there always is beauty……..
    The tone of her voice so comforting!!
    Thank you!

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  378. Nena C Williams on

    This amazing interview left me with the bittersweet feelings of what it means to be alive, with all its heartaches and sadness, but also with the very deep emotional moments of beauty that flowers are able to stir inside me, and other people. I look forward to seeing Ngoc’s stellar photography in her upcoming book. Thank you for doing this.

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  379. Barb Beebe on

    I woke up early and I’m always looking for something refreshing and peaceful to watch other than the news. Ngoc’s story and sweet voice was just what I needed. Looking forward to the beauty in things really resonated with me. I try to do the same. Living each day in awe of nature and appreciating all the beauty is something we should all strive for. “Saving the stories,” now that is so important.

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  380. Jo on

    She closed with there is violence in the world – but there is also so much beauty. Very inspiring.

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  381. Kimberly Meyer on

    I loved this and the idea that her parents, particularly her father, taught her to care. That caring attention seems to come through her photographs and the subjects that she chooses.

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  382. Maggie Mathwich on

    I was inspired by Ngoc for sharing the power of nature’s gentleness to overcome her grief and to stay connected to her father. I love the message of kindness. Kindness to herself and choosing to see kindness in the world. I think people who love nature are acutely aware of our connectedness and how important even one petal can be.

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  383. Tammy Jensen on

    What a lovely story. I was struck by her description of photography as Mediation, something in the world and you process it through yourself – it’s what makes your work unique. And photography allowing her to show the tenderness instead of the violence in the world. What a sweet way to begin my day.

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  384. Michele Paciunas on

    So beautiful!! A lovely tribute to her father and to all the magic of flowers and roses in particular. How her grief turned to joy in knowing her father was always with her, in her and her work, was comforting. Thank you!

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  385. Ana on

    I love that she examination of flowers in the context of their human history. Beautiful story and inspiriting artist. Thank you.

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  386. Erin Carroll on

    What touched me most is her taking home the roses to photograph to be near to her father longer. I can totally relate to this. Thank you for introducing me to her work.

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  387. Kristine Albrecht on

    What a beautiful story. It’s interesting how many of us connect with family through flowers and gardening. Your story reminded me of that connection with my dad who passed away when I was 21. I have favorite memories of the joy gardening brought him much like Ngoe’s dad roses did for him.

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  388. Janet hall on

    o wow! She has found inner peace by showing the beauty that is in the world. Something we all need.

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  389. mary deLaittre on

    Ngoc Minh Ngo’s profound quote ‘Beauty is medicine’ is a fundamental truth that can guide and support us through the often painful moments of life.

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  390. Valerie on

    Thank you for sharing Ngoc’s beautiful story.
    I lost my mom 5 years ago and have been carrying her with me through my gardens. It was where she felt the greatest sense of accomplishment and also the most at peace, so I very much appreciate the ethos of this book.
    Her love of her father and choosing to honor him by celebrating what he loved truly resonates with me. What a beautiful story to wake up to. To look for tenderness instead of violence is a skill that more of us need today.

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  391. Peggy Murray on

    A lovely film! Between seeing Floret garden, glimpsing her photographs, and listening to her speak of her Dad, I am struck by how centered she is. Thank you for sharing.

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  392. Marcia on

    So wonderful to hear how Ngoc turned her loss of family photos into a compass for her life. I can’t imagine losing all those precious family mementos from her youth. I’m inspired by the way she went right into the pain to find the beauty within and create a special bond with her dad’s memory. Thank you for sharing her story and beautiful photography. This is a very special gift indeed♥️

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  393. Jamie on

    I was moved by her explanation that through her photography she aims “to show the tenderness instead of the violence in the world.”

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  394. Barb Page on

    A beautiful tribute, I think, to her father. Her love for him is palpable. When she spoke of the Family Boxes of photos/memories being burned, she said that was the greatest sense of loss she has ever experienced. Later she said that she is always looking for the magic in flowers…..and It is always there. The reality of flowers being a big part of her being able to, now, live with peace after so much loss, is really a beautiful thing. That resonates with me and I think the beauty of what Mother Nature can put before us is something that humbles me and yet something I find much happiness experiencing. Thank you for a lovely interview.

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  395. Kristin on

    “Beauty is medicine for the world.” Her photographs are stunning. There is something so profound about connecting to the earth and grief; the cycles of birth and death, roots and flowers, parents and children. “Show tenderness instead of violence.” Especially now.

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  396. Angel Barton on

    Always look for the magic in flowers. That is beautiful, can’t wait to get her book

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  397. Kristin on

    Your videos and filmography are so beautiful. I enjoyed the interview and was most impacted by when she said the roses didn’t bloom for her father one last time. You can see how she was grieving and struggling with the loss of her father and also grieving for him that he didn’t get to see the roses that he worked so hard to create.

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  398. Lisa Mundy on

    I was most moved when Ngoc talked about the last week of her father’s life, and how she used to walk in the rose garden hoping that the roses would bloom soon. The quote she mentioned “Beauty is medicine for the world” rings very true. Thank you for this lovely film.

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  399. Diana Farmer on

    What a beautiful story and gorgeous book. I imagine anyone who has lost someone recently feels inspired by this act of preservation. For me it was my Omi, she loved her garden more than almost anything and constantly took pictures of her flowers. When she recently passed away in January, I decided to bring home a rose bush from her garden to carry on a piece of her garden within mine. Thank you Ngoc and Erin for sharing so much tenderness.

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  400. Kathy Brady on

    What a lovely woman living life with a profound sense of purpose which is to share the beauty of nature. Her comment about grief was particularly poignant to me. The initial sharpness of grief and the gradual peace you make with it as life goes on. As I listened I was reminded how much of an anchor it is to work, play, and relax in nature even if it is only the small gardens planted in the yard around my small home in Williamsburg, VA. “Into the garden I go to lose my mind and find my soul.” The world is less chaotic and frenzied in the garden. Agree?

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  401. Carol Bass on

    This interview was so lovely and touching. She found great beauty in her silent pain. But overall, when I hear her words and see her pictures, I think…peace.

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  402. Alice El-Hamaki on

    What a lovely story with gorgeous photographs. I love her statements that the magic is always there in the roses and that beauty is medicine for the world.
    Thank you for sharing this film interview.

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  403. Janet Lancaster on

    Beautifully done. Her words and story resonate with me and the videography is stunning. Thank you for your passion in pursuing the ‘human’ side of nature, and blending the magic of flowers into the stories.

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  404. Elizabeth Shevenell on

    Grief. How we are impacted by it, how we process it, and how we grow and develop from it. Ngoc experienced grief upon the destruction of her family’s archives. She experienced grief upon the loss of her father. These experiences opened a path for her. She could have chosen differently, but she chose the way to bring light, beauty, and love into her (and our) world. She transformed her despair into hope. This interview is spiritual and we are left with the understanding, and promise, that we are all able to choose how grief affects us over time. Knowing her story adds to the beauty of this book.

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  405. Cathy on

    The entire piece was so captivating – from her soft voice to her amazing perspective on flowers and nature in her photography. I was most moved by her wish that the roses would bloom before her father’s death. Blooming roses probably brought Ngoc sadness for many years – I but now has turned into a beautiful memory of her father. I have beautiful rose gardens and I can’t wait for them to bloom in April! I look forward to buying her book – but to win it would be a treat. Thank you.

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  406. Marybeth on

    Having just lost my father, it was an especially moving tribute. I was intrigued by her statement that making art is a process of mediation

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  407. AnnaMay Wilson on

    Thank you for creating this. I was most inspired by how she shared that she learned kindness from her parents. I also was impacted by the way she said her art is about how she feels as she is doing it.

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  408. Miranda Schwartz on

    I resonated with Ngoc’s desire to connect with roses after the passing of her father. I think that searching for something tangible to hold on to after saying goodbye to a beloved family member is part of our human nature and her story reminds me of the passing of my beloved grandfather this past December and my desire to grow his favorite tomatoes. I too have found a love for roses over the past year and planted my first, Princess Charlene, one year ago!

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  409. Deb! on

    Her mention of her dad’s small rose patch brought up for me memories of my grandma’s roses. When their house was sold, I dug up some of their raspberries, but I didn’t think to dig up any of her roses! My heart! When he retired, my grandpa excitement with grafting fruit trees. The house was sold when I was in my early 20s and not making enough money to buy it myself. 20 years later, I still wish I’d had the opportunity.

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  410. Tracey on

    Such a poetic interpretation of grief, healing, and the power of art. When I opened my email this morning and listened to Ngoc’s incredible story; it was a profound reminder of my own father. My Dad passed March 25, 2011. I used to garden with my father as well. One of my favorite memories of him is saying- “Tracey Pooh, God made dirt and dirt doesn’t hurt.” I am also a professional photographer, and my dad is with me always. Thank you for sharing Ngoc’s journey, especially today.

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  411. Neets Pluschke on

    When Ngoc talks about the magic of flowers, she sums up this connection for me and what I can bring to others with flowers is profound. The quote “Beauty is medicine for the world” is so true.
    I’m in Australia, but wanted to comment anyways. Thank you for sharing such a special interview.

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  412. Katie on

    Just seeing how one’s past truly impacts and influences your life. Events can be so profound and really she was able to channel her influences towards her creative outlets which turned it into such positive outcomes.

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  413. Toni on

    Ngoc’s vulnerability is breathtaking.
    I’m taken with her gentle spirit and her beautiful art.
    Thank you for sharing Ngoc with us!
    Her willingness to share her story deepens the experience of her photographs; and, such a tender tribute to her father.

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  414. Rachel Mahnke on

    What a lovely story. She brings a sweetness and intense vulnerability to her story and her photographs. What a touching relationship she had with her father. I love how her journey brought her to a place of seeking out the beauty and finding healing for her loss. She has inspired me once again to seek beauty to fill those pain filled moments that we experience in our lives. Beautiful! 🌺

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  415. Laurie Hoelzeman on

    Wow, what a story and inspiration Ngoc is. This video and her perspective is so heart warming and hopeful! Thank you for sharing.

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  416. Julia on

    These original films that you are releasing are stunning. I was most impacted by Ngoc’s comments about grief becoming less sharp and how she carries her father with her when visiting these special rose gardens. Beauty is medicine for sure!

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  417. Rita on

    Beauty is medicine for the world by Ocean Vuong; so true. What a heart warming way to begin one’s day.

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  418. Wendi DuBois on

    Honestly, the piece made me cry. My dad, also a Col. in the Air Force, also an incredibly kind and thoughtful human, introduced me to nature. I have so many memories of him showing me bits of beauty…woodbine growing, columbine waving, teaching me what birds I heard. He died during the pandemic in a memory care facility. When the facility opened up for limited visits, I had to wait my turn which came in June. We met outside, the weather was beautiful and I remember the scent of the flowers. He looked so happy as he watched the sky, for birds and for planes. I’ve always, always loved flowers and when I decided to leave my career as an artist in the wake of the pandemic, it was the beauty of seeing Finding Floret which drew me back to nature, back to flowers, and I feel my dad with me every day as I listen to robins and see tiny plants come to life. Thank you for this beautiful piece. Ngoc’s story reminds us not to lose what is most important in life.

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  419. Jennifer on

    It’s beautiful how she describes both her father’s life and death as intertwined with the roses and her inspiration for the book.

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  420. Cindy Lillard on

    What a beautiful story you have given the world! Thank you.

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  421. Janina C on

    Thank you for sharing this beautiful interview with this very kind lady. Ngoc’s story is both sad and inspirational. I lost my father in 2008 as well and miss him every day. The way she eloquently speaks of her father shows up in how she photographs the roses. It’s as if he is walking the rose bush paths admiring their beauty while she captures them with her camera. This interview was also a reminder to me, to slow down and appreciate all that’s still beautiful during these tough times.

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  422. Kathy May on

    I love the fact that she truly made ” beauty from ashes”. She took the loss of her memories to make beauty and memories for herself but also for many others.

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  423. Deb Smith on

    Beautiful interview. I was most impacted by Ngoe’s connection to the natural world and most importantly flowers. Thank you for introducing me to this amazing photographer.

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  424. Julie Chapman on

    Her journey is one of the most sad yet beautiful journeys I’ve ever heard. I take an enormous amounts of photos myself and my love of flowers came from my grandmother. My dad was in the Vietnam war and brought my mother here back in the 70s. Thank you for the gorgeous flowers you share with others and the opportunities you provide to educate others in their journeys as well.

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